i specified a three date rule and received answers of being a whore, and to clarify...ive only date two men in one year...and dont usally date at all....so no, i am not loose....
what or how long does it take for you men (that arent only interested in casual sex!) to realize that we arent looking for that? does it takes months of dating without? i seem to be going about things the wrong way and getting men that just tried really hard to get in my pants. PLEASE BE NICE ABOUT YOUR ANSWERS OR I WILL REPORT YOU.
2006-12-05 11:31:18 · 12 answers · asked by nonyerbusiness 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
thanks to all of you that are being decent and honest!!! :):):)
2006-12-05 11:40:03 · update #1
mmmm no you are not a whore --- but giving a hard and fast rule is not the way either
it takes as long as necessary --- i would wait forever for my lady because i want much more than just sex
to make sure the guy is interested in you wait --- see what happens --- there maybe a connection and you both want sex NOW or you could wait for 10 dates and decide noooo its not going to happen
rules are meant to be broken so maybe break your rule and see what happens
2006-12-05 11:37:42 · answer #1 · answered by trader1867 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
please get the books. "the list man" this book will give 7 different things a man will do if he wants more than sex. the read "he's just not into you" this book will tell you weather or not he loves you or loves your sex.
if your going about things in the wrong way then theses books will really help. I promise.
three dates is NOT enough time to have sex with anyone. I don't care if it is the only sex you get a man will NOT take the relationship seriously if it is based on sex. He Will think that if you put out that fast for him then you will for anyone and everyone else. it won't matter if it is the truth or not.
I'm not being mean I'm talking from experience. I'm 46 and I am no virgin
2006-12-05 11:37:24 · answer #2 · answered by autumnbrookblue 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
3 dates is fair however, if you'd prefer to wait longer than you should not be pressured otherwise. If the guy your dating cannot wait as long as you want then he is clearly not the guy for you! And no matter how long you wait USE PROTECTION! Becasue if all they want is sex then they surely are not going to stuck around for a baby. Good luck!!
2006-12-05 11:37:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nicole 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sometimes the sex is not what the guy expected from you..maybe your not enough woman for him or it just does not feel right! Maybe he wants more sex all night long and you can't keep up with him so he looses interest? There are many reasons, and just as many answers.
2006-12-05 11:49:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take a good look at who and what types of men you are dating (twice a year) or what ever. Is there a common theme among them. Personality traits, attitudes towards women in general and is it that you do to attract them..........
2006-12-05 11:37:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ease up grrr, put er' in neutral, I was juss kidding. My grandad has a tractor, and if he doesn't start it over the winter, it won't start come spring. I was just offering my objective hillbilly point of view, not all of us are from Seatle.
2006-12-05 11:44:05 · answer #6 · answered by NIGHTSHADE 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is create a new rule for yourself and make it a four month rule if he really likes you and worth it he will wait and take the time to get to know you and not just your body.
good luck out there.
2006-12-05 11:38:00 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you know what is funny? I read your question earlier, and all of the answers you got...it amazes me the rudeness and biligerence that appears on here....like all of them are virgins...
i think the 3 date rule is great. so is being honest. screw the ignorant hypocritical people that only answer your question to be jerks...
2006-12-05 11:36:56 · answer #8 · answered by shasta 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
not sure where you are finding these guys, but we aren't all like that.
try screening guys a bit better before dating or approaching the subject of romance.. i'm a strong believer in the friends-first theory.
also, be a good communicator.. make i clear to guys what your intentions are, what your values are, and also make it clear as to what you aren't looking for.
2006-12-05 11:37:18 · answer #9 · answered by Jeff 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
u just seem to be looking in the wrong places. not every guy is looking for the quick casual sex.
2006-12-05 11:34:33 · answer #10 · answered by 2dogs 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋