you do, if you really think she's right for you? She's been burned before.
2006-12-05 10:47:18 · 7 answers · asked by Tom M. 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you really like her and you think she will be a person you want in your life long term, make the effort to take things slow. If she feels safe with you, slow may not really be that long of a time period. And she may not really be anti-relationship, she may just be anti-getting her heart broken or getting hurt. Sounds like she was shook up by a previous bad relationship.
2006-12-05 10:52:46 · answer #1 · answered by omegalibra927 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're really interested enough in her, then you'll want to respect her desires and take it slow too. Its understandable why she would be against relationships given her past but sometimes people just need the right amount of time and the right person to make them change their thinking again. Perhaps you will be the one. But you have to do what she wants for now and give her enough space so she can find out.
2006-12-05 10:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You take it slow. Spend time with her and take things as they come. Don't ask her to make any promises for the future. I wouldn't even talk about having a future until she does. She should stay comfortable as long as she doesn't feel pressured into anything. This also means that if you want to date other people, you can. The the point of not being in a relationship.
2006-12-05 10:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by Chris D 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do what she wants, if you really care for her then you should be able to have the strength to go slow with her and build towards your goal of a true and loving relationship.
2006-12-05 10:50:32 · answer #4 · answered by caitymercede 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well! If U think that she is the right ne for U, I guess U should be very patient, understanding + U have to get her trust & be faithful to her so she can trust U, it will need time for sure but it will be a happy ending I'm sure, Good luck.
2006-12-05 10:54:35 · answer #5 · answered by Susan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow.
Don't lose a good catch because you're impatient.
2006-12-05 10:48:33 · answer #6 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
play by her rules but don't waste your time either.
2006-12-05 10:49:08 · answer #7 · answered by blue_eyed_woman_23 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋