Ok. So there's this guy at school and he's liked me ever since kindergarten. Not cool. By the way, this kid is WRONG on so many levels. Now, during the time that he's liked me, he has told me all the gross things that he fantasizes about (w/me as the center of these fantisizations, of course.). I've put up w/it until now. He's gone way too far. Because I have told him so many times how I think he's going to be a rapist and to get away from me, he has found a new "sexy beast". MY MAN. Ok. So needless to say, NOT COOL. He has started telling my man how sexy he is and what he fantisizes. We are both desgusted. Please help me think of a way to tell him that neither one of us likes him.
2006-12-05 10:28:35 · 15 answers · asked by broadwaybaby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You got to be firm with crazies--Tell him you have no desire to continue to hear about his sick fantasies and if he doesn't stop, you'll have to take it up with someone who can stop the harrassment...like the principal or a counselor. What he's doing is considered sexual harrassment. Don't put up with it.
2006-12-05 10:32:35 · answer #1 · answered by gigi_victory 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
O Sweetie! I'm sry! So obviously he's bi!.! I no that seems really gross and all but some people are just lyke that Hun! I think it is really disgusting too but sometimes u just have to live w/it!!! Or u could either go to the counsellor and talk 2 him/her! Sometimes it's just best to talk 2 an adult about this kind of stuff! Hey, if u have NE more things to deal w/ or u need help w/something my e-mail address is jasmynsullivan@yahoo.com
p.s. who would want to choose to be bi ne wayz! Or maybe he is just trying to scare u cuse u wouldn't go w/ him!
2006-12-05 18:41:22 · answer #2 · answered by Jasmyn S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you have been playing with his whims and leading him on by even listening to him in the first place. If it really offends you and you're not just desprate for attention then tell him to leave you alone or you will file a report against him, if he persists, then file the report. Stop giving him attention and begging for attention yourself by giving in to his commentary.
2006-12-05 18:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Ring Questions 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't like him. If he's being gross and not caring about how either of you feel, then you shouldn't care about how he feels either. Tell him that it's creepy how he acts around you and you're not comfortable with it, and ask him to stop. If he doesn't, talk to someone you trust that could help you get rid of him.
2006-12-05 18:32:59 · answer #4 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
PSHYCO!!!!!! you should difinitely tell some one really close to you or some one you can trust....this guy sounds really fatal and the out come could be just that!!!!!....DONT try to find a way...FIND A WAY and do what you gotta do to get his perverted azz as far away from you as you can......TELL SOME ONE SCREW IT TELL EVERY ONE ABOUT HIM!!! so that if he ever does try something crazy people will know!!!!!
2006-12-05 18:38:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
You should tell him straight foward or go to the principals or even cops. He is harrasing you if it got that far.Thats pretty sick that he likes you and your boyfriend man he is the one whos gonna be the rapist.
2006-12-05 18:32:12 · answer #6 · answered by Polandsprings 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell him.
Why are you worrying about offending him? He's obviously not worried about offending you.
Why have you even entertained this foolishness as long as you have? Just tell him to step off.
2006-12-05 18:33:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Have your boyfriend kick his a**!!! What a gross pig. And if your boyfriend won't handle him -- dump him and find someone that will.
2006-12-05 18:30:34 · answer #8 · answered by Chula 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
and i like you too , now u got three guys to deal with
good luck on that honey
2006-12-05 18:30:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell him the truth
sometimes people just need that
2006-12-05 18:32:01 · answer #10 · answered by SomeGuy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋