my gf told me in the summer she was ready to give me a handjob but im still waiting. ive been waiting for 6 months and im sick of waiting. what do i do to make her move to the next step??
2006-12-05 10:23:10 · 12 answers · asked by DOGGYFIZZLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
lol ask her again may she forgoten
2006-12-05 10:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by micho 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If a woman engages in sexual activity (outside of marriage), its usually for emotional reasons, as opposed to men who tend to engage for physical gratification. I would assume that emotionally she's not ready. I know its been 6 months, but maybe she's getting a desperate vibe from you, which is a HUGE turn off for women. I don't suggest talking to her about this because she is probably going to be defensive and even more guarded. Maybe she's waiting for a commitment from you? Maybe she thinks if you get it, you're going to leave. There's something more deep rooted than her being "stubborn." Take the time to find out what that is. She may be doing you a favor in the long run, you never know.
2006-12-08 15:53:18 · answer #2 · answered by volkgal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might mot be ready. and if u act desperate it is probably turning her off. sex seems to be all u want. don't u realize that if sex was all girls wanted they can get whenever they want it from whoever they want. this applies to her too. if that is all she wanted she could get it from someone else. instead she is valuing YOU as a person, and u need to value her as a person. Have fun spending time and doing other things with her. if your hormones are raging so much, do it by yourself. if u can't be patient, u don't even deserve her because she does not owe u anything!
2006-12-05 18:42:01 · answer #3 · answered by baby doll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you need to do is not force sex on her mentally but use soft touching and flirting with her. show a lot of affection without being harassing or a problem. kiss and lick her in sensative places that will make her think of sex without you even talking about it. kiss her inner thighs, her neck, ear, the back of the neck or even behind the knee is sensative. be freakier and smoother and dont talk about it to her. just let her get worked up and caught up in the moment. shell drop them draws soon enough my friend
2006-12-05 18:45:23 · answer #4 · answered by iluvwetsnatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you are scum... and second what girl would want to be with someone who only thinks of himself...ever stop to think that maybe you are just too ugly? or maybe your umm ..you know.. is way too small and disfigured? you want it done so bad do it yourself fool and you better get used to that because i don't think any girl will want to be with you for having that attitude.
get some class and show some respect....
2006-12-05 18:28:06 · answer #5 · answered by super steve 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing when she ready she let you. obviously she not ready. in till then use your own dam hands.
2006-12-05 18:28:38 · answer #6 · answered by dragonbabytattoo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take it out and put it in her hand then she will figure out its time
2006-12-05 18:25:41 · answer #7 · answered by Michael D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
talk to her about it...dont push anything...but respect her decision when she tells you that she is not ready.
2006-12-05 18:26:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She aint READY.
2006-12-05 18:25:07 · answer #9 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
start dating girls that put out and then when she finds out tell her to start giving it up or you'll dump her.
2006-12-05 18:25:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋