Would save so much time and confusion, instead of have us all wondering is he or isnt he interested...
2006-12-05 10:16:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Oh and when u ask if they are u either dont get a response or he changes the topic.
2006-12-05 10:21:20 · update #1
well it could be any number of things~ 1) wanting to lead you on, so he can feel superior/popular around his "boyz" ~2) not sure what he wants~ 3)not want to hurt your feelings~4)could be interested but afraid to say or show it~5)might want his cake & eat it too, i can go on & on but the best & most accurate way of knowing is to ask him & give him the chance to respond (REMEMBER GUYZ ARENT AS BRIGHT AS US LADIES!!!lol)
2006-12-05 10:23:12 · answer #1 · answered by kimmiegaddy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, well a lot of guys would say the same thing about girls. It's simple though, it's a fear of being rejected. I always thought the chase was the fun part and didn't really care if I was rejected or not.
2006-12-05 18:18:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, why are you just wondering about it? Have you told him whether you are interested in him? Have you asked him whether he is interested in you? Communication is a two-way street, ya' know.
2006-12-05 18:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Easy answer to this one: The same reason you won't come right out and ask him if he's interested.
2006-12-05 18:19:09 · answer #4 · answered by jveretto0804 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
cause then when you your not interested you're considered a dick and all girl friends of the girl that likes you, hate you so just we just prolong it so its even more dickish so its all intertwined in some way pretty cool huh!
2006-12-05 18:21:45 · answer #5 · answered by Steve M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't know that you like him than he isn't just going to walk up to you and say that he isn't interested. Or he just doesn't want to hurt your feelings.
2006-12-05 18:20:45 · answer #6 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are also polite u kno.. i mean they don't like seeing people hurt.. so they don't want to hurt u and they're just confused on how to say that they aren't interested
2006-12-05 18:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Addie ~ chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probaly because we do not want to break the various golden hearts of women.
Seriously.
2006-12-05 18:18:42 · answer #8 · answered by Luna 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok.
I am not interested.
Feel better now?
2006-12-05 18:26:20 · answer #9 · answered by Cerdic 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
we think it'll hurt your feeling's that's why
2006-12-05 18:19:06 · answer #10 · answered by csm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋