i care about my current "boyfriend" but i find him un-attiquite in bed. i don't want to hurt his feelings but something must be done
2006-12-05 10:16:07 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... if you care about him and you're interested in working on things... you could tell/show him how to be better for you. If you've already tried that and nothings changed (or the problem can't be fixed with time), don't feel bad if you have to end the relationship.
I say this to you as a kindred spirt because I spent about 11 months longer than I should have in my last relationship because even though he was an awesome guy, but we were just NOT sexually compatible. I went from having a high sex drive to being an "I have a headache girl." So eventually (11 months eventually) I ended the relationship and told him I thought he was the best... just not the best for me. It was painful but we're friends now. My current boyfriend reminds me daily of what I was missing with the other one. You wouldn't buy a new car that you knew didn't work just because it was your favorite color.... so don't stay in a relationship that doesn't work just because you don't want to hurt his feelings. You can do this!
2006-12-05 10:24:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kim G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if its inexperience give him time if not you need to decide if this is something that you can or cant accept in a relationship
2006-12-05 10:19:39 · answer #2 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋