me and my boyfriend are both 16 and have been off and on for three years, so its not like its been too serious. but suddenly he wants me to be really sexual, i'm not ready for it and he knows it. but he nags about me not wanting to do the things he wants to do. what should i do?
2006-12-05 10:12:38 · 23 answers · asked by chelsea 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-12-05 10:14:47 · answer #1 · answered by DonGiovanni 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ohmygahd. Girl, just break it off. He's straight up acting like a total jerk! If he is continuously nagging you to an extent where it is practically FORCE then it's so not worth being in a relationship with someone who can't respect you . You deserve better =)
2006-12-05 10:16:12 · answer #2 · answered by CHA0TIK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you care about him very much & don't want to lose him, but you need to take care of yourself first. Tell him he has 2 choices; he can accept and respect that you're not ready or find a girl that is ready. If he truly cares, he'll stay & stop pressuring you. If he goes, you know he never really cared, so it wasn't much of a loss.
2006-12-05 10:16:06 · answer #3 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is normal his hormones are out of control. What you want to do is a lot more important then what he wants.You're feelings are as important and he is manipulating you. Most girls you're age don't even really enjoy them selves because they can't be them selves and feel they have to please that boy.Which is obviously you,re situation if you aren't ready and he put pressure on you! When the day comes that you can please you're self in front of him and not feel ashamed and feel respected well you have a great s@x life.
Mean while take you're time and communicate you're feelings to him.Be understanding of his crazy hormones as long as he understands you and respects you.
2006-12-05 10:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by other shoes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's trying to get you to do something you aren't ready for, then he's not the guy for you. If you're not ready to be sexual at sixteen, then he should respect you enough to not pressure you into doing something you don't want to do.
2006-12-05 10:14:59 · answer #5 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should save yourself for when you are ready! don't let him pressure you. don't worry about it girl, he will find some floozy to do it with and it won't matter because she'll be on maury povich pregnant but doesn't know who the daddy is. lol. if he really loves you then he will understand and wait for you to be ready, even if it takes two more years!!!
don't rush it, you don't want to regret anything, that's the WORST!!!
good luck and stay true to yourself!!!
2006-12-05 10:16:45 · answer #6 · answered by Nikki 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
elementary, you comprehend messing round slightly, bl*w jobs, ha*d jobs, f*ngering, e*ting out, hes not a perv or anytihng yet because you 2 are not waiting for sex he only needs to spend time with you and do slightly romantic sexual stuff on the section. go with the help of the bases. =)
2016-11-30 04:43:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyy! some ppl arnt open 2 sex and some ppl go out of there way to get it. if u want to slow it down just say NO and if he asks again break up with him! lov ya!
Jesse Grimm
2006-12-05 10:17:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him he's a horny teenager that only wants sex ASAP.
Most guys will want sex 24/7.
Don't succumb to his desires.
However, that shouldn't mean you should ignore his wants.
If he isn't asking you to blow him every hour on the hour, you'll be fine.
2006-12-05 10:14:53 · answer #9 · answered by Luna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he really cares for you he should respect your wishes to wait. If not, it's time to move on and find someone who respects you.
2006-12-05 10:14:40 · answer #10 · answered by Thunderman9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to respect your decision until you are ready.
2006-12-05 10:14:34 · answer #11 · answered by marisanj 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋