2006-12-05 10:11:59 · 28 answers · asked by tinkerbell 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is not in love with you
2006-12-05 10:13:38 · answer #1 · answered by keith s 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he doesn't let you in, it doesn't exactly mean he doesn't care for you. Speaking from personal experience, it can take a lot for a guy to really allow that one person in the deeper end of the pool instead of just the shallow end. He gives you signs and shows you in smaller ways that he does care for you and wants it to work, you just have to look a little harder. Go back in time and see the things he has done for and the way he handled it. One great sign is that he still gives you more time than any other "friend". If you are good to him, prove that he can trust you and know how to help make his life happy then you will dive right into that deep end of the pool. Just be carefuly when you do, there's so much to learn about a person and being careless can cause serious accidents. Be good to yourself and to him and you'll get the emotions or anything you want from him. One thing you have to consider and might want to talk to him about is how he goes about with letting people in. You might be able to learn something from it and getting a better view on how to handle the situation with him. Good luck!!!
2006-12-05 10:19:12 · answer #2 · answered by Steve S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's "distant" and not AVOIDING you, he's probably shy. If he's avoiding you, he doesn't want you for some reason. Eitherway, he's a waste of time. Do you really want to be with someone who is significantly shhhy...or do you want someone who's outgoing, that will integrate socially with friends and family. Look elsewhere. I made that mistake with a long-term g/f. She was a fox, but it sucked going out!
2006-12-05 10:20:35 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may not know any better. That may have been how he was brought up. He simply may not consciously know what he thinks of you because he doesn't know how to identify, differentiate and express his emotions towards you.
Either that, or he doesn't want to let you in because he is afraid that telling you the truth about what he thinks might hurt you.
Either way, it sounds like a breakdown in communication.
2006-12-05 10:17:32 · answer #4 · answered by Didgeridude 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is this is newer relationship, then yeah he's probably shy. If its more of a longer term, and this is new..Either he's not getting enough sex and is afraid to lose more chances by saying something. Or he could be upset about something and doesnt want to discuss it, unless asked.
2006-12-05 10:14:41 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...he probably doesn't like you. You might have an unattractive quality to him.
Then again, maybe he does like you, but he's worried about. For example, I really liked this girl in college, and when she finally showed me attention, I pushed away b/c she cheated on all her boyfriends, and I didn't want any part of that.
2006-12-05 10:14:40 · answer #6 · answered by theodore r 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means he wants you to mind your own business. It means he is a guy and guys are closed. We dont have girl talk and open up.
2006-12-05 10:13:50 · answer #7 · answered by richmicknremtp 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels pressured or he just does not want to open up to you. No offense some men just handle things differently than others, he may also not know how to open up.
2006-12-05 10:21:42 · answer #8 · answered by ~Another Day~ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe hes scared of letting out his true emotions. unless he is uninterested he could be trying to hint for you to back off a little.
2006-12-05 10:14:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON! If this person isn't giving you the love and attention you deserve.. trust me.. move on! It is not worth the heart ache in the long run!
2006-12-05 10:14:09 · answer #10 · answered by boxerlover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes either shy, is afraid you might be a clingy psycho. He doesnt want to be in a commited monogamous relationship.
2006-12-05 10:13:27 · answer #11 · answered by undrgrndhiphop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋