I totally love him and we are a great couple other than we fight over things that just shouldn't matter.
2006-12-05 10:09:43 · 17 answers · asked by Yumyum 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are your personalities both similar? People usually fight because they are too different or too alike. Its normal to fight, especially for stupid things. You both should have a talk about this and learn to compromise with one another to avoid fights.
2006-12-05 10:18:17 · answer #1 · answered by Pinky 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because we spend so much time around our significant other we tend to sometimes take fustration out on them. I have found that also sometimes we have unrealistic expecations about what our partners should or shouldn't do. We sometimes expect them to read our minds. Communication is key. Say what your feeling and allow the other person to do the same. It's easy to get defensive when this happens so just try and see you part in the argument. Really try and empathize and see where the other person is coming from. We all have different points of refernece and different expectations so try to not sweat the small stuff so much and like one of the other people's responses said choose your battles wisely. I mean after all how important is this issue going to be in a week, month, or year? -Amanda, 25
2006-12-05 18:30:09 · answer #2 · answered by foxymox12 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe if you never fight, you must just not care. A lot of couples fight over "the little stuff". You could try to recognize when it's happening & just say "this is stupid; let's not fight over this". That helps...but don't get overly upset about it. You seem very happy in general, so just be happy & enjoy him!
2006-12-05 18:13:09 · answer #3 · answered by pr1ncezz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually it's not too bad to argue. It's like to clean the pipes -much better after. And you know that words are only words, you'll forget about that very soon.
Just remember never ever loose your respect for each other and go in bed making a great peace.
2006-12-05 18:17:18 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats how it goes sometimes but I think that as long as your relationship stays healthy, a stupid fight (non-physical) never hurt anybody! Now doing it all the time maybe your just young? Thats what you do when your young?
2006-12-05 18:13:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well im in the same boat.. think about it this way, at least ur arguments is not a huge one.. be glad that u guys are only arguing about petty stuff and able to take care of the seriuos one(hopefully)... u guys love each other thats why even tho u argue about stupid stuff, u'r still together..right?
2006-12-05 18:14:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe some of the little things aren't so little to one or the other of you. If you don't want to fight with him, don't do the dance. Soemtimes being right isn't everything.
2006-12-05 18:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by MCS 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's normal for a relationship. It's healthy to argue on occassion, and it's good that the things you argue over are little. I'd be more worried about your relationship if you didn't argue at all!
2006-12-05 18:11:38 · answer #8 · answered by happy311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you might be spending too much time with him try keeping some space for a couple days and things will be better
2006-12-05 18:12:07 · answer #9 · answered by yea boy1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A wise man once told me - when I asked him this very same question - that there was something "big" that we weren't discussing. A problem that was underlying our relationship. He was right.
Could this be the case in your instance?
2006-12-05 18:12:09 · answer #10 · answered by Juanitaville 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋