2006-12-05 09:56:17 · 21 answers · asked by Fruitful1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
u can cut off the sex but dont cut off the friendship. i mean, think about it. he wouldnt be a friend with benefits if he wasnt a friend. so... now hes just a friend, so call him and be supportive of the things in his life, like his kids bday... that shows heart and that u really do care for him as a person, even thought the sex aint there no more :) good luck
2006-12-05 09:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by The Wunder 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
lol..you got yourself in one of those situations. depending on if the little girl was attached to you or not, I would call.
I mean if you guys were only friends for a short amount of time, I wouldn't bother calling him. She isn't your daughter and it will probably make a bigger situation out of nothing
If you were friends for a while and the daughter is attached to you, you should call, but only to talk to her. Because if you do talk to the father chances are you will be put back into the "benefit" category!
2006-12-05 09:59:24 · answer #2 · answered by errbyleerby 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
that's kinda difficult. my first answer would be to say no. since you have cut off all ties with him by calling him for his daughter could spark things back up again. if you really want to contact him regarding his daughter, then make things perfectly crystal clear that you are only calling for the daughter...not to get some more benefits.
2006-12-05 09:59:01 · answer #3 · answered by Zenobia 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sure you should call him: don't be mean! Call him and tell him you would like to come over for his daughter's birthday and have some "cake and ice cream" with him too. The let him start the moves and only THEN do you cut him off!!! HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!!!!
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2006-12-05 09:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
depends how close you are with the guy if it is just a friend w/ benefits probably not, if you know the daughter well maybe you should call him
2006-12-05 09:58:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2016-12-13 03:31:24 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're going to hit on the daughter just for revenge I don't think it is a good idea. Leave the girl alone, she is probably too young for you anyway.
2006-12-05 09:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by Staceyflourpond 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No do not call him, his daughter does not deserve to have people coming and going out of her life.
2006-12-05 09:57:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
call that daughter
see what she wants for her birthday
take her on a special day out to a museum then a nice buffet meal and pay lots of attention to her
2006-12-05 10:16:37 · answer #9 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it was just a random booty-call and nothing more than I'd forget about trying to be cordial. However, if you've got some history that goes beyond sex then it can't hurt to say "what-up!"
2006-12-05 10:01:10 · answer #10 · answered by gs400cww 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋