I am pregnant but me and my boyfriend still have sex and when we do it hurts a lot!! i havent told him i'm pregnant so i can't tell him to stop!
2006-12-05 09:36:59 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i can't tell him because it isn't official i've only had 1 pregnancy test i going to the doctor's tommorow
2006-12-05 09:37:56 · update #1
Tell him it hurts. You dont have to tell him you are pregnant. If it hurts why keep doing it? If you burned yourself, you wouldn't keep doing it right? I understand not wanting to tell him that you are pregnant yet, because you are unsure if you are truly pregnant, as far as the sex thing, Yes you can still have sex while pregnant, and No you cannot get pregnant again if you are already pregnant (where do some of you people live?) Your pain issue might have something to do with your hormonal changes in your body. Tell your doctor at your appointment and I'm sure they will tell you that everything is fine..Good luck!
2006-12-05 09:43:21 · answer #1 · answered by errbyleerby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi Confused!
In fact you really should tell your boyfriend you're pregnant! One day he'll find out anyway... If you really want to wait to tell him, then just tell him he's hurting you when making love. Ask him to move more smoothly, less deep, less hard, whatever... or try another position. A pregnancy is an ideal situation to discover and enlarge your sex life and your body.
If it keeps on hurting, you should tell him immediately AND you should see your gynecologist.
But in fact I wonder if you really wanted the baby and if you want to keep it? Are you ready for it? Is your boyfriend? Are you old and mature enough? Ask yourself(s) those questions and many more... A baby is for life, you know... it's not a pet you can give away when you're getting bored with it! Sorry for this sermon... just in case...
Per
2006-12-05 09:51:38 · answer #2 · answered by perbjorkq 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just recently had a little girl three months ago, and I know that sex while pregnant can sometimes be painful. But that also depends on how far along you are. If your in your first trimester (first three months of pregnancy) than it should not be hurting, and you need to see a doctor Asap, also tell your boyfiend your pregnant, people donot always like surprises.
2006-12-05 09:40:43 · answer #3 · answered by tysexy25 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it hurts STOP! If you don't want to tell him your pregnant yet fine but use some other excuse not to. I think you should be able to tell him that you think you might be though. You should prepare yourself for whatever the outcome may be though. I am a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and this may be the thing you need in your life. My daughter was unexpected but she is the best thing that ever happened to me. No one was supportive of my pregnancy but I took that and it made me stronger. Hope this helps you.
2006-12-05 09:43:58 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him. Don't keep that news away from hom because he has the right to know. Its not good having sex when pregnant specially if your far along which you must not be considering he cant tell. Dont have sex if it hurts, there is other ways of having yourself pleased.
2006-12-05 09:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by blazin_cripz_2006_0wner.sheena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell him you re pregnant. Sex should not hurt, whether pregnant or not. Your body is changing because of a new baby, and for that reason, you need to be gentle, and so does your boyfriend. He needs to understand that too.
2006-12-05 09:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not have a very good boyfriend if you can not tell him that you do not want to have sex because you are in pain. If you do not want to tell him yet that you might be preggo you do not have say so, but you can ALWAYS say no to sex-
When you get preggo you get more sensitive, ALOT more sometimes. there are alot of hormonal changes that are going on, could be a later period starting too.
2006-12-05 09:40:50 · answer #7 · answered by allaboutme_333 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
explain to your boyfriend that for some reason or another sex for you lately has been painful and you want to wait till you've seen the docotr and gotten a prognosis before ingaging in sex. if he really loves you he will understand and respect you. I would also suggest you stop having sex all together untill you are married (wether with this man or another). good luck and God bless
2006-12-05 09:40:27 · answer #8 · answered by University Girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, take the test.
Second, tell him the truth.
Third, if it hurts stop.
If you are pregnant, ask the doctor about sex during pregnancy.
2006-12-05 09:50:01 · answer #9 · answered by Axeman 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because when you become pregnant your uterus and cervix begin to expand he may be hitting against your cervix. and if you took a home pregnancy test it's official. you need to tell him. just in case it isn't just your cervix he's hitting against and that there really is a problem there. and yes you can tell him to stop anytime you want to that's your right as a human being.
2006-12-05 09:41:02 · answer #10 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋