and now he is telling me that we should do it i know i love him but i am still a virgin what should i do i love him a lot and i know he loves me?
2006-12-05 09:34:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i am 16 going on 17
2006-12-05 09:41:42 · update #1
i should have listened i did it with him and now he left me !!!!!!! but it was fun lol
2006-12-07 10:15:06 · update #2
Stop. Don't do anything with him. If he tells you that you should do it to prove your love for him then (I would) leave him. You don't need to prove your love to him. No offense, but he might just be trying to take advantage of you. I am not saying that he doesn't love you, but consider your options please!!!
2006-12-05 09:40:38 · answer #1 · answered by *♥Jinx♥* 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you love him after just 2 weeks? I find that hard to believe. Love is a very strong word. Use it when you mean it. As for the doing it part... make sure your old enough to take care of a kid if an accident happens, and be out of high school. If your in high school, dont do it. It could ruin your education if you are unable to go to school and at the same time take care of a child. I believe that this guy is in it for the sex, not for you. Hey may just be telling you he loves you to buy you in to him and then he gets what he has been wanting for for 2 weeks-SEX.
2006-12-05 09:38:18 · answer #2 · answered by Regenerit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save your virginity. Believe me you aren't missing out on anything. Two weeks is not enough time to decide to have sex or know the feeling of true love. Besides if he really loved you he wouldn't pressure you at all. In fact he would stand by your decision no matter what. Maybe in a year or two, if he's still around then he will deserve it. TRUE LOVE WAITS
2006-12-05 09:42:44 · answer #3 · answered by BROWN_SKINNED_BEAUTY 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
2 weeks is nothing. When it comes to love, it takes at least 2 months and preferably more (going at fastest, and even when those two people are perfect). If you want love, go for the long term. In fact, find someone who can resist the urge, and think to himself, "I don't know her enough yet. I'm in this for love, after all". If you just want to know what sex feels like without love, then go right ahead.
2006-12-05 09:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by DN 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask this question on a website then you are not ready! Don't do anything till you are ready, and you will know when you are. If you do it before then you will live to regret it. And I can guarantee that no man is going to "love" someone after 2 weeks, he's just trying to get into your pants. Stick to your guns girl. Be Strong.
2006-12-05 09:40:46 · answer #5 · answered by PHAT 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No wait........what if he only saying that. Your virginity is something so precious and dont do it with anyone wait. If he really loves you say to him you would like to wait a few months, as if he dont wait or says something like why, then he really doesnt understand and value you and then you know and be glad that you waited. Only been two weeks, no harm in waiting
2006-12-05 09:38:09 · answer #6 · answered by Cherryl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think you love him after two weeks. How old are you? At 17, my boyfriend told me he loved me, I gave in and slept with him. Two weeks later, I found out he was dating someone else.
Don't do it.
2006-12-05 09:38:02 · answer #7 · answered by Get a life 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
whoa ? two weeks n ur in love r u serious? i don't think so. u have no clue if he's just dating u to get in ur pants. u really need to wait especially if u don't kno if ur really ready to have sex.deff. don't sllep with him yet until ur totally sure
2006-12-05 09:41:05 · answer #8 · answered by clutzmuch276 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks?
wait at least a month
he may be just messin wth you to use use for his own pleasure
2006-12-05 09:36:28 · answer #9 · answered by WhatTheHell? 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 weeks and you love him? are you sure?
2006-12-05 09:36:20 · answer #10 · answered by BBaller25 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋