I'm forty -- five years old, and I've never been married . I feel insulted and offended that not one of the women I've known has wanted me to be her husband . Am I wrong for feeling this way ? If I shouldn't feel this way, why not ? Why is it wrong ?
2006-12-05 09:33:05 · 13 answers · asked by I_hate_being_single 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yes your wrong!! nobody is obliged to love you in that way!! there are such things as friendships!!
try online dating!!! or a new group of friends!!! you never no you might find the woman you been searching for all your life!!!
2006-12-05 09:35:59 · answer #1 · answered by cinderella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You feel how you feel...no one can tell you it's "wrong" but they may feel it's not justified.
How many women have you proposed to? Perhaps those that would've considered you for a husband, were not ones you considered as a wife.
Why be insulted? I'm 41, singled for the past decade (more or less) and I'm not insulted I haven't been in a significant relationship...I just realize that of the guys I've met there hasn't been a mutual desire to do so.
2006-12-05 09:36:18 · answer #2 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at 32. My husband did not want to get married. He was afraid of commitment. It could be that the women you have dated are afraid of commitment. Financial insecure.
I made him made a desicion on a month of December, because we had talked that we would love for this group to play in our wedding one day. Since this group was going to be so bussy during the Christmass holidays, he had to make a decesion because we needed a date. He gave me a date I started making all arrangements and it just came smooth. Now married for 10 years this December. Happily married. Had been boyfriend girlfriend for 11 years. I waited for him all this time. I loved him and understood how he felt but he just had to make a desicion already.
I see you in the same boat, but the problem is the woman and not you. Don't worry Miss Right will show-up. THE BEST OF LUCK.
2006-12-05 09:45:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe there's something about you that just doesn't scream, "MONOGAMOUS!" Take a look at yourself next time you go on a date. There could be some quality you have that they've all found to be a major turn-off. That, or none of the women you date are interested in marriage.
It's different for those of us who are single by choice. I've never been on an actual date before (I'm 17), and I really don't care anymore.
2006-12-05 12:17:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am 47.......went through an awful, abusive marriage. I am more insulted that he wasted eight years of my time. I am now engaged again to the best guy I ever knew. He is thirty years old. So at 47 I just found happiness with someone for the first time. Hang in there and don't be bitter about it. There is someone out there for you and you WILL meet. Sometimes I think God just thinks that some of us are so special he has to have a lot of time to find the perfect person that is good enough for us! :)
2006-12-05 09:37:33 · answer #5 · answered by xovenusxo 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you're nevertheless single coz you're thinking that way. I advise that would not advise that the girls you realize doesnt such as you would be able to make you experience undesirable approximately your self. Why no longer decide for somebody who would not understand you lots? locate somebody else which you will possibly locate exciting with, attempt to construct some thing with that somebody, exert attempt (this is needed), supply time and function the boldness. Dont push your self lots however, do only it easily, i understand this is extra handy mentioned than carried out, yet whats up dont experience so down and too previous, extra useful yet have a youthful heart, by employing that your way of thinking might make you seem and experience youthful. effective factors in existence facilitates in doing some thing. In end, dont get stucked up with the girls around you, attempt to flow around, you will in no way understand...GOODLUCK!
2016-10-14 02:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've honestly tried to be in a relationship with many different women, then I guess you could be offended. But if you're too shy to do anything about your status and you're waiting for some woman to come along and marry you, then it's partially your fault that you're single. You need to start finding ways to get women's attention, like possibly improving your image and your personality all you can. There's someone out there for you, I promise!
2006-12-05 09:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by happy311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sure you're going to get a lot of this type answer. You just haven't found the right person yet. I really don't think you should feel about yourself but i do understand why you would feel that way. But keep in mind, if you want to find that special someone, you have to stay positive. No one wants to be with a downer.
2006-12-05 09:39:37 · answer #8 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not everyone wants to get married. Some women as well as men desire to remain single by choice. You are just dating women who choose to be single. Look for a women who has the desire to become married. They are out there. You have just not come across one yet. No, you should not feel insulted. And you may be putting signals out that make them believe you are happy being single. Good luck and God bless****
2006-12-05 09:37:02 · answer #9 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't feel that way. It's not wrong, but you're just beating yourself up. You either just haven't found the right person yet, or you're not meant to be married.
2006-12-05 09:35:40 · answer #10 · answered by Amigurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋