I like this guy and he flirts w/ me but i want him to ask me out how can i get his attention?
2006-12-05 09:13:59 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just put in a little more effort to be with him. Just do small little things, like walking with him a bit more, even if for just a few feet. Laugh a bit harder at his jokes, funny or not. Act cute, but never stupid- show him you're an intelligent person. You might not think guys care about your IQ, but with experience from my past relationships, they do. Bring up the topic of a restaurant or cafe, and say, very informally, something along the lines of, "Omg, have you heard about that new place? We should so go there together some time! I've heard the food was great."
Unless he's a complete idiot, those'll definitely get his attention.
Of course, he may just be shy, so why not ask him out yourself? I've talked to different guys about his stuff before, and even the most outgoing boys have trouble asking a girl out. You know that feeling right before you're about to tell a guy that he's the love of yout life, or even just that you have a smidgen of a crush on him? Yeah. It works the same way for guys. Why not give them a little break? Honestly, what have you got to lose? The worst thing that can happen is him saying "no", and if that's the case, then at least you'll know whether or not he was planning on asking you out anyway, and that he obviously doesn't deserve you. If that happens, the next time you're in a public place, open your eyes and see how many guys there are... there's plenty of fish in the sea, so don't worry about this one little asshole.
Good luck!
2006-12-05 14:20:08 · answer #1 · answered by kylie! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why wait for him to ask you out? The next time you guys are talking ask him if he'd like to go get a drink with you. And remember be yourself don't change just to make him like you, if you do it will never work because the real you will eventually come creeping back out.
2006-12-05 17:18:44 · answer #2 · answered by PHAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself as no one wants to go out with a fake, and flirt a little and why not ask him out, what you got to lose. Ask a friend to see what he thinks, like someone you can trust .
2006-12-05 17:17:10 · answer #3 · answered by Cherryl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not take the intiative? If u like him and ur sure he likes u, then ask him urself. If ur worried what ppl might think about a girl asking a guy out, say screw them... U want to date him, not them, they can sukk a**... I know i like it when a woman takes the initiative and does sumthing interesting.
Maybe he won't, but it can't hurt to try.
Good luck and Merry Christmas.
2006-12-05 17:21:01 · answer #4 · answered by krazeemunkie13 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he flirts with you, you already have his attention. So, why don't you ask him out?
2006-12-05 17:17:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well...do u ever talk 2 guys?
if not then u need to start talking 2 them
but if u do just be yourelf but maybe be more adventoures with ur looks maybe???
dunno
dont worry hun
the perfect romeo is out there just waiting 4 u
2006-12-05 17:17:03 · answer #6 · answered by funny.bones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know that you are very young.
just continue to be yourself and don't do anything to get his attention but keep a smile.
be sweet and kind. Don't be in a rush for anything.
you have plenty of time to learn and grow.
This boy will soon express himself to you over time.
2006-12-05 17:25:47 · answer #7 · answered by Big P 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smile, be freindly and receptive to him and show an interest in him and what he likes. Maybe ask him out to lunch. He will get the picture.
2006-12-05 17:16:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him to have your children,that shoukd get their attention :) lol
2006-12-05 17:15:41 · answer #9 · answered by Me 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself and if he doesn't see that than he doesn't deserve you. You shouldn't change yourself for a guy.
2006-12-05 17:15:43 · answer #10 · answered by aznchick615 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋