2006-12-05 09:12:43 · 4 answers · asked by nygirlsrdifferent 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wouldn"t say men cheat , that just sounds bad - I would say they are just being men and you shouldn"t ask your bf because that just puts him on the spot - I hope this helps you
2006-12-05 09:18:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mini-drama version of this happened to me. Before my beau and I fell in love, he was sleeping with other people while we were dating after HE had established we would be monogamous. But after we got close and fell in love, I found evidence of infidelity and confronted him. He was SO SCARED. And not of me being mad because I was very calm and simply asked for a truthful answer, but of losing me, and he was honest... my point of view is that it happened in the past, people make mistakes and its over and done with and I know by the way he treats me, talks to me, talks about me that he is head over heels in love and wouldn't do anything to risk this relationship. SO, if there is NO WAY IN HELL anyone will find out- I think its better left burried if you know you love this girl and you're committed to her. If you are unsure about your love/commitment to this girl, than maybe that stuff is a sign for you not to move forward and break it off. HOWEVER, if you think theres a chance she might find out and you are in love with and committed to her, its better you come forward first. Good luck.
2006-12-05 17:23:05 · answer #2 · answered by HE'S NOT INTO ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be careful what u ask---if u ask---that means u are willing to accept and handle the truth
if asked-- yes I would tell the truth-- after all they asked -- I did not volunteer the info
2006-12-05 17:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by sunbun 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no
2006-12-05 17:16:26 · answer #4 · answered by rjs4310 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋