i want to have the baby but not hearin my familys mouth cuz iiz my coice but my familys a ghetto crazy people but me ndma mansz wants to have this baby nd what can i do to make everything better and havin no problems and just not dealin with arguein with your family i want to live with either my friends or my mansz moms house do i need permission or what can i do to help myselfpllz help!!
2006-12-05 08:50:10 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
haha sorry this just made me laugh, by the way you talk you shouldn't be having kids but whatever
2006-12-05 09:00:42 · answer #1 · answered by Natalie D 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough question to answer. I'm glad you asked for advice. I went to your profile before answering.
If you are 14-years-old, you are still very young yourself. Raising a child is hard for people in their 20s - 50s. Your life is just beginning. A baby would change everything.
Where I live, "CPS" means Child Protective Services. I don't know if that's what you mean when you say you are on CPS. If it is, then I do not recommend that you have the child. Or, if you do, put the baby up for adoption. You are young and need to learn more about your Self and about parenting and relationships.
You also state that you are on probation and that the baby's father is in jail. This is not a good environment into which to bring a child. If you love the baby, which I'm sure you do, then do what is best for that baby. What's best for your child, may not be what is best for you or what you actually want to do. In my opinion, the needs of the baby come first.
Brightest of Blessings to your baby and to you.
2006-12-05 09:03:43 · answer #2 · answered by ladydamorea 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people care me ghetto but I do not understand what you're talking about. If you are under 18 maybe you should think hard about not having your families help. I had my son when I was 18 and now I'm 19 and I'm on my own and my son's father was in jail for about a week over a misunderstanding. But, its hard raising a child especially by yourself. But to help you out you need to talk to someone maybe your probabtion officer can help.
2006-12-05 09:39:28 · answer #3 · answered by Mz Bree 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ndma mansz
cps nd
iiz
what are these words. I think you should pay a little bit more attention in English class than having a baby with whoever you are talking about.
2006-12-05 09:10:38 · answer #4 · answered by Mom to Foster Children 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you even think its okay to have a child you need to learn how to stop talk-in so ghetto fabulous. I couldn't understand over half your question you don't need to be having a baby yet!!!
2006-12-05 09:09:20 · answer #5 · answered by lovelittlelulu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can start with stop using ghetto talk, it wont be long till your child starts saying my "mansz moms"
2006-12-05 09:48:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? Please clarify...
2006-12-05 08:52:48 · answer #7 · answered by SamIam82 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋