This is going to be kind of long but I have been friends with this girl since 8th grade and we've always been really close.. through everything. This summer we became really good friends and she was over at my house all the time and we'd just have so much fun and laugh and be good.. Well, I had some buddies over and I have three computers.. so they were both chatting with her and I was asleep.. she called my phone and asked me which one I should go for and I told her neither and she said why and basically I blew it off without telling her how I felt.. The conversation went on and I called her beautiful and told her how much I care about her and I kept getting bugged by my buddies so I ran outside in the rain and locked myself into my car.. and I told her and she flipped out (I was in a wreck and have a hematoma (sp?) on my skull but at the time I didn't know.. She told me to go back inside and I said why and she said that she didnt want anything to happen to me... This is to long..
2006-12-05 08:48:41 · 5 answers · asked by obsidian_121 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
And she told me that she cared about me and didn't want anything to happen to me.. which was just something I've never been told by anyone.. Well she kept coming over and we've been good friends through alot of stuff since this summer.. Now she is moving and I just can't handle that.. I broke down last night and actually cried. I think I'm in love with this girl... she does have a boyfriend who she is crazy about.. but then again I'm used to giving up stuff for someone else so its fine.. just as long as shes happy.. I just really wanted to know what people thought and how I should deal with this.. Also.. The reason I fell for her so hard was because after I had my wreck and was in the hospital.. She came to see me and was worried sick and then her brother told me she was so tore about me.. I have never had someone care about me and that just blew my mind..
2006-12-05 08:53:22 · update #1
You must be young. First of all she was asking about the other guys so she must have been interested in one of them. Just stay friends with her. She'll let you know if there will ever be more to it or not.
2006-12-05 08:51:55 · answer #1 · answered by Pache 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a way to learn a lesson. For one thing, Never,Ever let your "buds" in on any girl you like. The whole objective of a buddy, is to see if he can "score" with your girl friend! Now that said, go and tell her how you feel. Always be honest in any relationship. Always tell the truth. When you run your life that way, you don't need to have a "terrific" memory, because the truth is the Truth. In the future, Don't let Anyone else on your computers, for heaven's sake, they could "hook" you up to all kinds of "crap", download viruses, all kinds of things. Never do that again, OK? Now, go phone your friend and tell her your sorry, and that you really like her yourself, and its Christmas, and , and, you know what to do. Goo Luck
2006-12-05 16:59:03 · answer #2 · answered by peaches 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she really does like you and since ya'll have been friends for a long time you should ask her out and if she does say no just think of the bright side ya'll are still very close friends
2006-12-05 16:54:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tel her how you feel it might turn out that she feels the same about you, even though she has a boyfriend maybe she was wanting you to say it first. I f she doesnt feel that wat she will let you know it is your call
2006-12-05 17:01:10 · answer #4 · answered by Emily 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO YOU REALLY EVEN KNOW IF YOU HAVE A BRAIN??
2006-12-05 16:51:42 · answer #5 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋