My signifiicant boyfriend (we just moved in together) does not want to included me in a couple friendships that he has out of our relationship. Yes, they are 2 females in particular. I do trust him, but do not feel he should be "hanging out" with either of them without me. Before we moved in together it was (i guess ok) but now that we live together i "don't think it's fair". what is your thought?
Oh yea, thanks to ALL of you who responded to my previos questions of having freindships out of the relationship!!
2006-12-05 08:48:28 · 7 answers · asked by Flaca 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're in the right here -- he should include you in all of his friendships, especially his friendships with other women. You don't have to be around every time he sees one of them, but they should be just as much your friends as his.
That said, be sure that you extend the same courtesy to him in regard to your friendships with other men.
2006-12-05 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by D'archangel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is obviously not ready for commitment. I'm sorry but when you are in a relationship and living together on top of it, you share everything, including friends. How would he like it if the tables were turned? Guaranteed he would not appreciate it at all, its the principle of it. He needs to man up and take responsibility and sacrifice anything for the woman he supposedly loves. He is being unappreciative, and when your love is not appreciated then its time to go. Give him a chance to redeem himself, make him compromise, and if dont wanna then let it be the demise of your relationship. Sorry momma, but you should be the only female friend he needs, put your foot down and let him know there is a new sheriff in town!
2006-12-05 17:00:45 · answer #2 · answered by jessie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetheart, controlling you is part of the package you sign when you decided to move with him. If you do not like it, leave otherwise he will be your daddy from now on. Buck up and accept his hand.
2006-12-05 16:51:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he shouldnt hang with 2 females,
2006-12-05 17:07:30 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's a hard one i suppose u could compromise maybe he could see them on his own but include you on some meetings good luck on whatever you decide k
2006-12-05 16:52:30 · answer #5 · answered by kitten6444 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You want to fornicate with him. He wants to fornicate with you AND sum gals.
Is this what you want?
2006-12-05 16:52:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him WHY??
2006-12-05 16:51:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋