2006-12-05 08:45:13 · 8 answers · asked by Feisty B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Hey Fiesty,
I myself am a foster parent and I can tell you that being a foster parent is an amazing expereince, but different that parenting your own children.
Logistically, there are a few things you have to look at. First of all, what are the ages of your children, many state Child Protection agencies, ahave limits on the amount of children under a certain age that a foster family can have.
Secondly, how much room do you have in your home, again there are state specific guidlines on the amount of living space required for each child in foster care.
You will aslo want to consider your background (any felony or assult convictions that your (or you partner/spouse if you have one) may proclude you from becoming a foster parent.
You should also seriously consider the number any type of children you are wanting to care for. Not always, but typically older children are sometimes a little harder to care for as the amount of abuse/neglect that have been exposed to is greater than that of younger children. There are many things to consider, fostering will have a huge impact on your family in many ways. And be prepared for your life, home and lifestyle to be studied, questioned and be under constant watch. You will not only be adding the child(ren) to your life but also caseworkers, sibling(s), birth families, attorneys, etc.
All that being said, if you have it in your heart to do it, go for it! I've been doing it for over three years now, and although at times it has been a struggle, I wouldn't change anything!
2006-12-05 09:09:58 · answer #1 · answered by SHERRIE F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can afford it then why not. I wish that I had enough money to take care of more children. There are so many children out there with out families. You could really make a difference in a childs life by taking them in and loving them as your own! If you are able to do so, I would encourage it! Just think if everyone adopted at least one child, maybe there wouldn't be any sleeping on the street or living with dope addicts!
2006-12-05 09:11:48 · answer #2 · answered by faith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? If you think you can handle it, go for it. I am also a mother of two and I actually inquired about being a foster-parent yesterday. I think it's going to help my children become more empathetic and give them some extra playmates.
2006-12-05 08:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a very noble thing that you want to do. However if you have two of your own i wouldn't reccomend it. They will need your love and attention and it makes it that much harder to be there for everyone the more that you have. If you feel you are up to the task then by all means do it...but i definitely wouldn't reccomend
2006-12-05 08:56:04 · answer #4 · answered by Yardie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a great idea if you have the room to spare and love to go around.
2006-12-05 08:48:08 · answer #5 · answered by smartypants909 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
of course it's a great idea as long as you have the money, time, safe environment, room,and love to give the child!
2006-12-05 09:00:25 · answer #6 · answered by Fiesty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes but it depends if you have two little boys or two little girl or one boy one girl if you have on boy and a girl adopt two on girl and one boy so your kids will have someone to play with!
2006-12-05 09:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by katelyn b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. You need to devote your time and attention to your children, not introduce drama and turmoil.
2006-12-05 09:05:34 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋