Theres this girl that i really like but i cant seem 2 talk 2 her. I've been trying 4 a couple of months now but everytime i see her i dont talk. Its not really that im scared or nervous its just that i dont do it. My friends are pissed off at me now because i keep saying im gonna talk 2 her but then i never do it. I really want 2 & i always feel bad when i see her & i didnt talk 2 her. Ive had many many many chances but i blew every single one of them. Can sum1 tell me why i cant talk to her?
2006-12-05 08:44:45 · 9 answers · asked by Craig 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well let me send sum more details. I kno nothing about her except her name & that she plays basketball w/ one of my friends. & my friends have tried 2 force me 2 tlk 2 her but i always just say 'ill do it later". The friend who plays basketball w/ her isnt really helping she said i need 2 do it myself. & the best part is tht my best friend was talking 2 my friend who plays basketball w/ her & she said that the last time they talked 2 each other she said that she liked me. So she likes me if they arent lieing & i kno tht but still cant talk. Oh & shes about a year or so younger than me & is kinda shy. Does tht help a little?
2006-12-05 09:25:48 · update #1
Oh & i dont kno her email or s/n because thats what im trying 2 find out
2006-12-05 09:26:53 · update #2
There may be several reasons. It could be psychological, where your brain is wired to shut down in those situations, or it could just be the long-term habits of procrastination taking over. You just have to stop feeling so bad, and talk to her. If you find yourself unable to, make your friends force you.
2006-12-05 08:51:41 · answer #1 · answered by Rewind 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you think she may not like you. And most people are afraid of rejection. You can try to tell her how you feel. If she rejects you at least you'll know that you tried. But don't give up.
I wish you the best of luck with her.
2006-12-05 16:53:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it is because you are nervous and don't know what to say. Try to just say "Hi" and then ask her a question like "Who's English class are you in?" Or other stuff like that based on what you know about her.
Good Luck!
2006-12-05 16:50:53 · answer #3 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're scared she will reject you.
Even if you are unaware of being scared I think that's the reason.
Either that or you just don't know what to say.
A simple "Hello" should suffice and let her take it from there.
2006-12-05 16:47:17 · answer #4 · answered by Jessie D. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur prablay shy,try sending her a note sayin ''Roses are red ,violtes are blue,you may not know but somebody likes you''that should get it started or make her feel that u want to talk to her
2006-12-05 16:49:07 · answer #5 · answered by calilove143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You like her...! how cute :)
just relax take a friend with you when she is with a crowd and it will make talking with her easier
eventually you will be able to talk to her one on one
2006-12-05 16:47:44 · answer #6 · answered by Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she doesn't under sign language? Try open your mouth a lil bigger. or just draw her sign that says Desperate and FUN!!!
2006-12-05 16:47:39 · answer #7 · answered by dougyazzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you dont have to talk, send her an email or text msg, BE BOLD!!
2006-12-05 16:47:08 · answer #8 · answered by kicks759 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yo self
2006-12-05 16:46:38 · answer #9 · answered by sara love me. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋