i need some advice?

Question

i have a boyfriend who i love so much and ive been with for about 1 year and 3 months this 9. And this who time he hasent realy been the boyfriend that i dream about. Hes not romantic or does nice things for me. all he likes to do is hang out with his family which i think is cool. but we harly do thigs by our self or as i say boyfriend and girlfriend stuff.. He says he loves me alot and i do belief him, but somethimes is rely hard because i feel like he treats me exactly like on of his sisters and not his girlfriend..So my question is do you guys think he'll change or stay the same? or does he realy love me so much that he has me around his parents 24/7? I NEED SOME ADVICE!

Answer 1

well- depends. how old are you?

Answer 2

Well, if you ask me you shouldn't wait around. Instead of sitting and hoping, you should make a move. Take him to the movies or some other place you 2 would have some fun. doesn't matter where, when, or how. If he truly love you, then he would never want to be away from you. Always remember to follow your heart, because you'll know that you did the best you could to get what you desired.

Answer 3

Hey huns, sounds you two have drifted into a rut, he treats you like sis because he proberbly thinks thats what you like, u never mentioned your ages, but try bying tickets to a concert, or tell him theres a kewl film you wanna go n see, maybe go clubbing, eventually your breat the mould of routine, maybe he needs to see how other lads treat there honeys, it will take time, dont make it like it some thing he wont like doing make it fun fun fun, n really dress sexi, that way he'll know wot a sis is n what a hot hunni u are. but also respect his family time n do fun stuff with them too, failing that you might have to meet a stud who will sweep you off your feet. good luck babe. also a romantic holiday with just you 2 n some whipped cream might help, I'll leave the rest to your imagination! respect

Answer 4

He's not what you want and not meeting your needs. It's important to determine if the relationship is good for you as well. Seems like it's good for him....or is it? Talk to him about this. This is the only way you're going to understand what he feels and find some of the answers that you're looking for.

Answer 5

First off no matter how much you try you cant and wont change the way he is. If he treats you like one of his sisters, then why are you with him? have you talked to him to let himknow what you want? Maybe you should try that first and see what happens......

Good luck!!

Answer 6

Everyone changes. I think you need to ask yourself what you are looking for in the relationship. Once you understand what you really want you will be able to determine if this relationship has real potential.

Answer 7

Love is not enough on which to base a relationship. There is more to it than just that. He sounds like a momma's boy. Sounds like you need to move on and grow up a bit.

Answer 8

well, i would ask are you both working. If you have money, party, if not, staying home with just the video game is good enough.

now, has your bf every dated before you? are you his first in the last few years? Well, just plan vacation with just the both of you should help.

Answer 9

Some basic advice: use the spell check in Yahoo Answers and someone may your question seriously.

Answer 10

sounds to me like he has fallen into depending on you, relying on you, to be there and, see to his needs when he needs you. Maybe it's time you let him know your there and yohoo! hello! guess what Honey dear, bye, bye. and, take a walk until he grows up.
Tell him he knows your phone number and to give you a call when he not to busy and has time for you.

Your to young to be starting life out this way, tell him to take a walk.

Answer 11

My advice to you is to worry less about boys and more about learning how to form proper sentences, and express complete thoughts when writing. Dump him and focus more on school.