I found condoms in my boyfriends shoe they were not ours because we dont use them. When I confronted him he said he planted them there to see if I was still looking through his stuff (bad lie) did I do the right thing by throwing him out?
2006-12-05 08:17:57 · 15 answers · asked by Boss Chick 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sound like you did the right thing to me! congrats for not putting up with any crap!
2006-12-05 08:20:30 · answer #1 · answered by *KiM* 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope not the right thing. Because if you weren't being so nosey in the first place he would have never set you up. Which means you were playing games with him from the beginning and never trusted him enough not to trust yourself. When somebody starts playing games like you have just done the one playing the games has a guilty conscious. So you probably just lost a good guy for a guilty conscious of yours. Even now you think he is lieing because you don't want to be in that relationship if you didn't want to be in that relationship you should have told him the truth instead of playing games like you've just done. You look bad in this situation not him. So no its not justified
2006-12-05 16:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Snooping is a bad habit (one of mine too, so I can't criticize). Just remember when you snoop, you have to be prepared that you 1) might find something and 2) will have to keep it quiet if you do.
To answer your question.... yes, you did the right thing.
But if you find that this situation develops into a trend, then you might want to consider that you are a bit over suspicious and may want to extend a bit more trust.
2006-12-05 16:23:18 · answer #3 · answered by Recruiter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, if you had this kind of evidence, it was reasonable to think that he is cheating, and cheating is always a legitimate excuse for ending the relationship.
-who keeps condoms in his shoe? hopefully these weren't used condoms... ewwww.
-have you snooped in his stuff before? That is bad. If you don't respect his privacy, then you're sending a message that you don't trust him... and he will eventually live up to that expectation of untrustworthiness. In your next relationship, try to create an atmosphere of mutual trust and respect.
2006-12-05 16:24:28 · answer #4 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. He is totally full of sh*t and even if he's not who in the world would want to stay with a guy who would plant condoms of all things. What an idiot.
2006-12-05 16:21:15 · answer #5 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats the lie all guys use. You did right, you dont want a guy like that with you
2006-12-05 16:44:59 · answer #6 · answered by kathernva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh man...wow...yea i have never heard of any guy "planting" stuff to see if his significant other was snooping around their stuff...you are for sure rightful in what you did. haha!!! to come to think about it, that guy is huge jerk, and it sounds like you deserve wayyy better...
2006-12-05 16:20:50 · answer #7 · answered by shootdadeputy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your title say alot. But with this question, check his phone to see who is has called. If things turn out bad, it is time to move
2006-12-05 16:20:38 · answer #8 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think so. honesty is the best policy and a key to a good relationship. wow, i sound like a hallmark card!
2006-12-05 16:21:29 · answer #9 · answered by Little Southern Belle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's cheatin then hell yes. why wouldnt you. if yall dont use em then he shouldnt have em. wrappin aint fun.
2006-12-05 16:20:14 · answer #10 · answered by zmvncbsk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋