we dated for four years. since we were 16/17. she claims that she just wants to know what its like to be single. how much time should i give this at all? its already been almost 2 months and i still miss her crazy.
2006-12-05 08:13:45 · 11 answers · asked by zmvncbsk 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if it has been 2 month, then it is over pal. people don't leave you when they love you, time to move on
2006-12-05 08:17:23 · answer #1 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys been together ever since you were still too young. She got bore and she doesn't want to be single, she wanted to go out & experiment with other guys. There's nothing you can do except to move on. I know it's easier said than done, but trust me, my very first boyfriend did that to me also, it's hard, but you'll live. However, in the mean time, grab your guy friends, go out, hit the club, or any other places like school, work, etc... and try to meet someone new. There are other fishes in the sea. Trust me, you'll find someone else who'll knows that she wants to be with you and noone else. Also, within a year or so, unless she met a handsome, rich prince charming, she'll have a talk with you to verify her feeling. Then, you'll have to ask yourself, all those times you're sitting at home missing her, she's out there screwing other guys, do you want to get back with someone like that? I would say good luck except there's really no luck involve, that's life, you got burn, you move on, and everything will work out as it should be...
2006-12-05 16:36:13 · answer #2 · answered by Beotch4Life 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's just an excuse for her to break up with you because she is no longer attracted to you. You need to get out there and start meeting more women because it is unhealthy to focus all your attention on one girl when she doesn't love you back. If you really want her back, here is your only hope: ignore this girl completely for now, and go out and get yourself another girlfriend (preferably a hot one), then make sure your ex sees you with this new girl. She will most likely get jealous or have a newfound attraction for you, especially since you have found happiness with someone else besides her. Personally, I don't think you should try to get her back because she will probably just end up leaving you again, but if you must, there you go. The sooner you learn how to live without her, the better off you'll be. Never rely on one person for happiness.
2006-12-05 16:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by scottrc5391 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All the time she needs and still don't count on her coming back to you. You were young when you started dating and she figured out there is more then one daisy in the field (sorry). There is always the chance you can be good friends just not bf/gf. you should stop thinking of her so much and think of yourself more. Go out and have fun and live life single for awhile. you'll be glad you did and might meet somebody else.
2006-12-05 16:21:18 · answer #4 · answered by justme 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you or want to be with you. The more you act like a wuss around her the more she will get turned off. Start living your life...
Yes, it's easier said then done. But start the healing process now! Who knows, she might want to come back to you after she dates a few A$$ holes. But then again, maybe you might have moved on and don't want her back!!! Always remember, women are attracted to confident + funny guys. There are plenty of women out there.
2006-12-05 16:23:25 · answer #5 · answered by mvas800 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no reason why anyone would break up with their partner to "see what it is like to be single". There is a reason why they want to be single, and that is either to flirt with other guys, go out with other guys, or to have sex with another guy. Go to her and tell her how you feel. Hopefully, she will come back to you. Try to figure out what made her do this. She might be insecure about something.
2006-12-05 16:22:45 · answer #6 · answered by cutiedudie2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go. She tried the easiest way to break off the relationship by saying she wants to see what its like to be single in other words she wants to see other people and get laid by other people. Remember If she comes back then she's yours forever but if she doesn't then she was never yours to begin with. Let her go and move on with your life
2006-12-05 16:19:02 · answer #7 · answered by The Plague 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should date other people, also. You don't want to wait for her. You should see if you really want to be with her. Talk to girls. Hang out. Have Fun!!! You don't need her to have fun. You can do it. Once you've dated for yourself. You can determine whether she is the one for you. 16 and 17 is young to have a wife.
2006-12-05 16:17:33 · answer #8 · answered by Free 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let her go. if she loves you she will come back. if she doesn't come back you will be okay. i know you miss her. if she is going to be acting "single" then you should take advantage of this break and find out for yourself if there is something more out there that you want. good luck.
2006-12-05 16:17:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dude she's probably cheated on you.
Sometimes they want to experiment or be free.
Or you were too smothering.
2006-12-05 16:16:54 · answer #10 · answered by Grant A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋