my ex is beautiful, we had such amazing good times, and i miss all of that but shes a lil pretentious, very jealous and treated me like i was less than her alot... my gf is beautiful, sweet, weve had amazing good times, and shes jus generally fun, but its hard dealing with the border, she can be a real ***** when she wants to be, and she often gets a lil immature...
2006-12-05 08:12:37 · 25 answers · asked by somebodystopme 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well, whichever way you choose to go be sure not to cheat on either of them.
But here's what I think. I think you ought to stay with who you're at. Going back to exes never has a good road cuz the past tends to repeat itself.
Staying with the one you have now it sounds like she treats you better than the past on. Do you want one that is like your equal or one that treats you like you're her pet dog?
Immaturity is a hard one, but they can grow up because it's typically not a character flaw, like what your ex is loaded with: character flaws.
And, being a *****? Hey, I can sure be one, but I love my husband more than life itself. Sometimes a ***** is the best thing cuz you know they'll take care of you, of themselves, of their children, and be strong when needed to be. Just learn how to work with the bitchness and you'll be set!
Good luck.
2006-12-05 08:17:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to go back to being treated like you're "less than" your "pretentious, very jealous" ex-girlfriend than go right ahead. I'm not sure what "border" you and your current girlfriend are dealing with, but the fact that you're even contemplating going back to a person who by your own admission treated you badly, than go. Your current girlfriend might be better off with someone who can truly see how "beautiful" and "sweet" she actually is. By the way...just so you're not shocked later on in life, everyone has the capability to be "a real *****", and there are times when the person you're with is going to act "a lil immature..." You should just admit to yourself that you WANT to break up with your current girlfriend to be with your ex and get on with it...the sooner you do the sooner your poor current girlfriend can get on with her life.
2006-12-05 08:20:58 · answer #2 · answered by eXie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The question you need to figure out the answer to is which of them do you love? If the answer is neither, from your description, it sounds like you haven't made the best choices in picking either one of them and could probably do better. No one deserves to be treated poorly and no one should have to put up with a ***** (unless it is the short term PMS-type *****iness that can't be helped). Maybe you would be better off not being tied down so Ms Right can come into your life who will treat you well and not be a 'real *****' as you've described your current girlfriend.
2006-12-05 08:18:45 · answer #3 · answered by stevijan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Stay with your current gf, the other is an ex for a reason. If she treated you like you were less than her before, she will do it to you again! Your current gf may be a little imature, but she will grow out of that. you cant grow out of being a controlling B***h. Good Luck!!
2006-12-05 08:21:43 · answer #4 · answered by gremlin1422 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When u break up wit some1 u usually regret it but think for a second.Why is she ur ex?That answers ur question but if u can't stand ur girlfriend then break up wit her.Itz better 2 be single anyway but i u really want some1 think about y u want them 2 be ur girlfriend.U need 2 pick a better reason then good looks cause good looks aren't always ta way 2 go.
2006-12-05 08:29:21 · answer #5 · answered by JoJo 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget her sorry a**. Anybody that acts like that is trouble in the future. It sounds to me like you are obsessed with her beauty. I know from experience that a beautiful girl with a shitty personality looses her beauty right away. The fact is, beauty is only skin deep. Pleasing to the eyes only. Just because someone is smokin hot doesn't mean they are great to be with. Pull your medulla obleongata out of your glutiua maximus
2006-12-05 08:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think that you should continue looking forward instead of going back to your ex.....the reasons why she is your ex and not your current girlfriend are good reasons....i think that you used good judgement by letting her go and moving on.... as far as the new girlfriend, she may or may not be the right one but time will tell....enjoy what you have with her but when she starts acting immature do not give in to that or entertain it..... even if you have to be alone, don't settle for less than you know will make you happy.
2006-12-05 08:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by jen4802051709 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When you break up you always start to reminise about the good ol times but forget why she is an EX in the first place..remember that and you will know why you are with who you are with now :
2006-12-05 08:14:30 · answer #8 · answered by queencrystle 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
refresh your life. Run away JACK and never come back! Start a new life and become a male/ female model. Actor, or something become successful like a doctor or lawer. Rich is the way, eg: Donald Trump.
2006-12-05 08:16:34 · answer #9 · answered by zacharydai 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If the things that your girlfriend does annoys you, then i think should should tell her and that you're thinking about going back with you ex if she doesn't stop that behavior that you don't like. If she accepts then stay with her and see if she really does stop. if she doesn't accept of if she didn't change her behavior then tell your ex that you're willing to be with her again if she changes her behavioral patters that you don't like. if your ex accepts, try to just hang out for a little while and see whether if she really does change for you or not. then choose which girl that did stop their bad bahavoir just to be with you. i hope it helps!
2006-12-05 08:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Shookoolate 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋