Im not ready for kids. I was on birthcontrol and this accident happened! I am too young for this mess. Im getting an abortion. How much does one cost and noones changing my mind!??
2006-12-05 08:11:32 · 33 answers · asked by PASSIONS 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
give me a thumbs down if yall want to. i dont care. the reason you were on birth control is because u didn't want one. if you have the baby and put it up for adoption you may want it back one day. girl do what you think is best for you. i never had one and i hae a daughter which was a mistake in the making but i love her to death. if you are ready for your life to change have the baby. if not do what u got to do. ABORT!!! I think they cost around $300-$400. next time wear a condom for it happen again. e-mail me if you want.
2006-12-05 08:52:37 · answer #1 · answered by ss 2 · 4⤊ 2⤋
I will tell you something, it may make you think. I am not pro-choice or pro-life. Adoption. You can find and choose the parents, they will financially support you, if you need a car for the winter to get to you nutrition classes and prenatal appointments, many will get you that. People are willing to fork out a bunch of $$ to have a healthy baby and newborn at that. I am not saying USE the people, I am saying give prospective good parents a chance to be parents. In abortion, you may regret and wonder, with adoption you will know, you can make an agreement with the adoptive parents such as wanting pictures every 6 months. I gave one up for adoption 9 years ago, I was 33 and we were living with a horrible party animal roommate, decided it was best to give the child a better place. I didn't ask much from the adoptive parents, just pictures and updates every 6 months.
Abortion is uncomfortable and painful if you're awake. It sounds terrible too, the sucking noise.
2006-12-05 09:00:11 · answer #2 · answered by Mt ~^^~~^^~ 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well first of all not all birthcontrol works 100%. And second of all use a condom. Its not the babys fault ur not ready though you were messing around. Theres other options other than having an abortion you could have it then give it to someone who wants a baby but just cant have one. but its ur decision so rem. what ever u do know that u have to live with that decision every day of ur life.
2006-12-05 08:25:41 · answer #3 · answered by heres to all the pretty words 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My friend paid i think 375 or 400 I'm not sure, and it depends on how far along you are. I think that's if your a few weeks The more far along you are the more it cost. Don't listen to what people are saying about you, even though i personally wouldn't get an abortion that's your decision to make. At least you were trying to protect yourself against being pregnant that's more than you can say for most. Planed parenthood is good like everyone said. Good luck to you.
2006-12-05 09:24:24 · answer #4 · answered by daddys_girl319 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry I don't know anything about abortion, but I had a friend who went through it and didn't tell anyone. I can only imagine the emotional scarring she still carries from going through that. I think she would have kept the baby if it'd had a different father to the one that actually fathered it.
Personally I think adoption is a better option but of course, it's your choice in the end. Hopefully someone here will know what you need to know. Good Luck.
2006-12-05 08:17:39 · answer #5 · answered by Leah D 1 · 4⤊ 0⤋
how old are you ?i got preg at age 16 accident like you say but i didnt want an abortion i had my daughter she was born 27 weeks 2lb 1oz and fighted to live shes now 10 soon and i dont regret a thing ide have another think or talk to freinds ,family because once youve gone through with it theres no going back good luck and best wishes
2006-12-05 09:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same senerio I didn't want kids. My mistake is the best thing that ever happened to me. Theres adoption. Theres people willing to take care of you n the baby while ur pregnet all finances provided. If you don't want to deal with people there safe places u drop the baby off no questions asked. Just think about it u don't get to redue it if u change ur mind. Its not the babys fault ur not ready for kids but there millions of people who are who can't have kids would love to take care of yours.
2006-12-05 08:26:30 · answer #7 · answered by CHUMBY 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go to www.plannedparenthood.com and see the options. They can cost from around 100$-$700 They can also tell you the different procedures they are going to do, and whatever else you need to know and it can be done very very discreetly. But the clinic in your area may be able to do some kind of help with the cost.
Dont let people judge you or change your mind. Youre making a sound decision for the future. Be strong and good luck!
2006-12-05 08:18:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋
Don't come on here and ask about abortions if your mind is made up you are just trying to create contraversy.
Sit back and enjoy people begging you to have your baby.
If you are that serious about it then you can go onto an abortion website or call a clinic and find out the price.
2006-12-05 08:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie D 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
first of all, i'm sorry to hear you want an abortion! do you really know what an abortion really is. they give you a drug so you can't feel what they are about to do. then they take a syringe hose atached to the bottle, it's like a vacuum cleaner, it will pull and suction your baby out of you and then they throw it away like garbage. your parents didn't do you like that..why do an innocent baby like that!! i would give it up for an adoption to a family who can't have kids who will love your baby like she\ he is theirs! abortion girlfriend is very expensive.i would like to be your friend and talk to you, but this is your choice. we are all God's angels, we all make mistakes, no matter how old we are, God has already forgiven you for whataever it was that you did. please give your baby up for adoption if
you don't want it. but after you carry your baby, and feel the baby growing you will come to love what was growing inside of you. that is a part of you in there! so please keep it or give it up for an adoption don't get no abortion, and another thing...they are trying to pass the law abortions, you need to check that out. abortion can really hurt you in the long way>i hope you make the right decision
2006-12-05 08:25:09 · answer #10 · answered by babytfromla 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋