2006-12-05 07:55:09 · 33 answers · asked by Pacific Princess 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like me..I've been single now for three months - reason being that I'm looking for the 'one' not the other 99 that are interested...
2006-12-06 04:37:16 · answer #1 · answered by ticket2ride 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You're probably an island.
Imagine you become shipwrecked on an island. You're lost and thousands of miles from civilisation. You want companionship. The island is beautiful. You're bright and intelligent. You're strong, independent and you were successful before you became stranded.
Unless you're extremely fortunate no one is going to find you on this island - or no one is going to approach you because perhaps you're too far away or you're off the beaten track.
So you're going to have get yourself off the island. You're going to have to build a raft or send a bottle with a note inside. You're going to have to do something to make people notice you. There is no point having Disney Land on a tropical island where no one will see it, for example.
Advertise. Make yourself available. Only then will you start to connect with others. Open yourself up so that you're not an island or a closed book as neither of these are going to get you anywhere.
2006-12-05 08:46:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
because you are successful independent strong and beautiful on the inside and out
2006-12-05 08:00:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good Question.
So, why are you?
You post no details other than what you just 'hint at' in your question.
You are just where you 'ought to be.' And I say that because ~ maybe ~ just may-be that Carma has a lesson for you to learn from your situation.
I wonder what it is that you need to learn?
What would it take for you to make progression in your life?
What do you see as 'progression?'
What could you offer to a suitor as a payoff for his pursuit of you?
For a long time, I told my wife, 'I do not want what she can buy me for my Birthday. Anyone with money can buy me that. I want what it is that only You can give me.'
In spite of my saying that, my words changed nothing.
Recently I was accused of 'only wanting her for her money'......!
[ I'm on 'a hiding to nothing,' really. ]
How are you different?
Sash ~ 'the Curious.'
2006-12-05 12:23:29 · answer #4 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Because you can be. Why sacrifice your independence for a guy? You can make it on your own, and that's what you should be doing instead of worrying about this.
2006-12-05 12:33:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All these things you are claiming, do you REALLY believe in them? I don't doubt that you are everything you are claiming to be. I just simply think that maybe you don't truly believe them yourself. You are doubting yourself therefore keeping you from meeting that special someone. I'm not sure how you have been approaching someone you'd like to date, but make sure you are doing it with all honesty. Be yourself from the beginning so that they can love you for the real you. Good luck~
2006-12-05 08:18:38 · answer #6 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Are you loving, nice and sensitive? The way you have described yourself is very obvious but to have a lasting relationship it has to go deeper. Maybe you scare men off.
2006-12-05 08:00:08 · answer #7 · answered by koolkatt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe Ur to serious on the first dates guys like girls they can take care of let Ur guard down a little and u will see how many guys will be at Ur door! u sound beautiful so just let go a little but don't be needy just show him Ur interested in him and he will be all for u!good luck!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-05 07:59:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be single? What are you looking for? Life's too short. Cos tomorrow, who knows? Think yourself lucky you are still alive & kicking!!!
2006-12-05 08:06:29 · answer #9 · answered by Littlehoneybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you have too strong of attitude. Some guys don't like that. They feel like they want to be the "protector."
2006-12-05 07:57:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋