an attractive girl if she asked you out on a date?
ive been seeing this guy casually,i havent slept with,only kissed him.i have been giving him mixed signals though,maybe thats why he hasnt asked me out.he says he finds me attractive etc etc....
i want to ask him out but im scared!!!
wouldnt a guy rather date an attractive girl rather than just see her casually?
2006-12-05 07:49:57 · 18 answers · asked by Special Lady 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he 29 and single and im 25 and single.
2006-12-05 07:50:23 · update #1
definately
2006-12-05 07:51:18 · answer #1 · answered by Banshee 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Focus on an event or activity. A concert is your best bet -- even if it's just a local bar band. If you ask him out to something open ended (like dinner or a movie) then the quality of the evening is dependent upon the conversation and the way you guys connect.
If it seems like it would be a fun event or activity, and he's available, he'll jump at the chance.
2006-12-05 15:55:26 · answer #2 · answered by Timothy B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
perhaps he can't be bothered with the run around. He might be thinking whats with these mixed messages. If she is interested in me, then she can make the move. That's stubbornness for ya!
Or maybe, he thinks that you are out of his league, so he's gonna make sure that you are 100% definitely interested before he makes a fool out of himself by asking you out.
Or maybe he has commitment issues, I got mixed up with someone with those. Its really confusing!
He could have you on a pedestal and know that when you are his day in day out girlfriend you'll not be as fantastically exciting to him, so he's keeping you at arms length. How selfish!
I hope that he is just a bit confused about your feelings, and that you sort it out.
2006-12-05 16:05:05 · answer #3 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys are all different but if he think you are cute then he might be interested in you. I mean you said you gave him mixed signals, so why dont you talk to him figure out a way to bring up exes and say "I just need a sweet guy like you or some other subtle hint of your intentions if he dosnt pick it up then he is do dumb to be given a chance to procreate. Good Luck
2006-12-05 15:53:39 · answer #4 · answered by gstolard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself what you're really scared of. I ask girls out all the time, most of the time they say no, once in a while they say yes, then it's good. Funny things is, when they say no it doesn't hurt my feelings and they take it as a compliment anyway.... Be brave it'll give you confidence no matter what the answer is.
2006-12-05 15:56:27 · answer #5 · answered by sinecat2005 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I'd rather date a pretty girl than just hang out with her. He might have confidence issues or think you may be seeing someone else he doesn't know about.
2006-12-05 15:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by Cameron L 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, A guy would rather not date and fool around on the side! If you ask him out, he might not respond the way you want him too. I say you sleep with him and if he sticks around cool, if not you got your answer!
2006-12-05 15:53:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is a mature person though a clever guy, seems actually he wants you to say some thing, careful dont let some one point you later taht you are responsible for every thing
2006-12-05 15:52:43 · answer #8 · answered by James_Bond 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're trepidatious, that take is slow. Don't make it a date, just invite him to go something, like a movie, and let the romance come out on its own, if it's going to.
2006-12-05 15:54:32 · answer #9 · answered by Zebra4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! you should defenitly talk to him. but dont get your hopes up, because it might not go the way you want. But still, he will respect the fact that you like him enough to start the relationship! but also he might find it too easy and might not want it. thats why you just need to talk to him. find out what he is thinking. but defenitly dont give it up too early, he def. might not like you.
2006-12-05 15:53:50 · answer #10 · answered by smitty4626 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u really like him then ask him out!!!!! it never hurts to ask or just bring it up when ur talking to him on the phone or in person!!!
2006-12-05 15:53:38 · answer #11 · answered by mustangsweetthing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋