2006-12-05 07:48:34 · 15 answers · asked by Wat Da Hell 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Yes. No matter how much it hurts the people involved, the cheater must come clean. He or she has already broken the trust of the spouse, and they can't even begin to work on the issue, or make decisions for the future, until the truth is out in the open. When a spouse finds out about the affair from another person, they may never be able to trust the cheater again.
2006-12-05 08:26:10 · answer #1 · answered by Persephone 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you want your marriage to last, no. if youre having problems and youre trying to work it out and both of you are being honest, yes. you have to know what will happen in this case you know your spouse and you know what havoc it will reck in your relationship. i cant advise you because i dont know the circumstances good luck though
2006-12-05 07:53:48 · answer #2 · answered by lankytallgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't want them to find out from someone else first. Besides, by not telling them, you are controlling them. They have the right to know what you did and make their own decision about it.
2006-12-05 07:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Aloe-ish-us 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, because it seems to me that they can't get their needs met within the relationship, so they look for "another" source by cheating on someone else.
2006-12-05 08:01:43 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT YOUR SPOUSE TO STAY WITH YOU THEN NO. IF YOU LOVE YOUR SPOUSE AND ARE NOT GOING TO DO IT AGAIN THEN I WOULDNT. IF YOUR SPOUSE COULD FIND OUT FROM SOMEONE ELSE THEN YOU MIGHT WANT TO SPEAK UP.
2006-12-05 07:53:21 · answer #5 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes, much better to find out from you than someone else. i hope your relationship is strong enough to recover from it. maybe your guilt and honesty will be some sort of bandaid...but it will be touch and go. good luck.
2006-12-05 07:53:38 · answer #6 · answered by Calli G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, if you don't you are more likly to keep on doing it.. be open and honest..and if you feel like you will continue to do it even if you tell her then let her go..don't hold her down to this relationship b/c of what you are doing..let her have someone that isn't going to do things like that to her..
2006-12-05 08:16:15 · answer #7 · answered by queencrystle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Private information often should remain private.
2006-12-05 08:16:03 · answer #8 · answered by Bea 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be gentle. pick the time and place carefully and expect them to leave and never come back. if they stay, you'll have a better relationship for it.
2006-12-05 07:54:25 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
YES!!!! Honesty is the best policy!
2006-12-05 07:52:46 · answer #10 · answered by dee 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋