i found my father and mother both looking at these sites and found it annoying also they use yim and got feed up of it...im annoyed cos im 17 have 2 brothers 7 and 19 and think my parets r being selfish..do u think i should tell them i know aout this?
2006-12-05 07:34:35 · 21 answers · asked by stewart_ryn 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Heck yea, and also do not introduce them to any of your friends' parents for God's sake! I would put it all out on the table. It would be quite the Christmas dinner conversation, now wouldn't it??? Good luck hon, hope you heal from this....PS don't tell your younger brothers!
2006-12-05 07:37:54 · answer #1 · answered by Yahoo Answerer 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
If you are really concerned about it, I would ask either of them, or both of them. I am a parent and I have done things in my life that I would never want my child to know about. I have never engaged in swinging, but any time a parent choses to live a lifestyle like this, they run the risk of hurting their children. As a parent, anything that hurts my child is not something that I would continue to do. Maybe your parents feel the same way and if they are made aware of how you feel, all of you can come to some understanding. Good luck.... this is a tough one.
2006-12-05 15:43:50 · answer #2 · answered by mitzireeves 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your parents are allowed private lives seperate from you and your siblings. its not a matter of fair or not fair. we also have 3 children. my wife and i both enjoy a life outside the family. its healthy, satisfiying and very rewarding. i think it makes us better parents as we can step outside the family, let go of ourselves for a while and then get back to parenting. we are more relaxed and tend to be a very happy couple as well as parents. we do not take away from our childrens lives just like i am sure yours do not. cut them some slack and grow up some. its not ALL about you and your brothers.
2006-12-05 15:42:47 · answer #3 · answered by fn_49@hotmail.com 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OFF THEY ARE NOT BEING SELFISH. THEY TAKE CARE OF THE KIDS ALL DAY EVERY DAY AND PAY ALL THE BILLS SO YOU GUYS CAN HAVE WHAT YOU WANT AND WHAT THEY FEEL YOU DESERVE. WHAT THEY DO IN THE PRIVACY OF THEIR OR SOMEONE ELSES BEDROOM IS THEIR BUSINESS. THEY ARE NOT HURTING YOU BY DOING THIS. IT IS THERE FREE TIME AND THEY CAN ENJOY AT AS THEY SEE FIT.
2006-12-05 15:37:31 · answer #4 · answered by becca_2 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well i can understand you being upset but at the same time its their business and they have the right to do what makes them happy in life. Good luck
2006-12-05 15:38:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No! They are adults and their sex life is not ypur business. How would you feel if the situation was reversed. Would you want them talking to you about it?
2006-12-05 15:39:59 · answer #6 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry man, but they never mearnt for u 2 seee that...abt being selfish, i don't think so and i believe there's a reason why they would even think abt swinging...
2006-12-05 15:39:43 · answer #7 · answered by angelic_234 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's their life - let them live it. As long as you and your siblings aren't getting hurt from this.. pretend like you never saw it !
2006-12-05 15:37:56 · answer #8 · answered by Growl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what type of sites like pourno??? tell thee 19 year old not the 7 year old then have a talk. w/ parents.
2006-12-05 15:36:44 · answer #9 · answered by question man 911 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
It is there business and not yours. You can ask that they not have it where you can see but that is it.
2006-12-05 15:36:47 · answer #10 · answered by Creola 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋