guys what they think if she offered on the first night well, ladies what would you think if a guy offered on the first night
2006-12-05 07:33:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd think "Thank god for that! It's been 2 years!" Yes 2 years, can you believe it?!
2006-12-05 07:36:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
In my experience, guys who offer on the first night have never asked for a second date. Could just be me though, as in an 'oh, you're not what I thought but at least I might be able to get some sex'!
2006-12-05 15:35:30 · answer #2 · answered by Natalie B 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
My first thought would be: "I wonder who they were with yesterday and the day before." This day and age, it's not safe to have multiple partners (casual sex). I guess I'm one of those "better-safe-than-sorry" kind of people. Just my opinion, but if a woman/girl - whatever - puts out on the first day/date -- well, if you act the part, you mine as well be one. I also don't understand how "that" makes a guy look "cool" and a girl look, um,.....bad??
If you are a guy, you must wonder who they were with today, yesterday and/or last night - if they're that quick to do it. Who looks forward in catching a disease??? Even "safe sex" isn't safe anymore. Rubbers slip off, break, bust - whatever and it's not worth losing your mind/reputation/genitals/respect/life.
I'm still young and I've seen people go through things, both guys and girls. So just be careful who you chose to lay down with.
2006-12-05 15:47:52 · answer #3 · answered by apache_lizz 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think I would be offended if they didn't try. I'd think, whats wrong with me? or are they gay? My friend actually did this. She accused a gentleman for being gay, she didn't get a second date!
I would want him to offer, but that's not to mean that I would accept. Its all about communication, if its not talked about, that's when us women turn psycho and paranoid and start trying to second guess men, it can get really ugly!
2006-12-05 16:11:36 · answer #4 · answered by As You Like It 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No matter how well we hit it off, I would still think she is a ho, and it would affect the potential for a long term relationship, if that is what she was looking for.
Now, depending on what I am looking for that could be hot or not, but we sure wouldn't end up getting married.
2006-12-05 15:36:43 · answer #5 · answered by mallrat_ld90 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
get ur pants off, but better not i'll be called a slag so i'll wait until next week, and then when we split up a week later oh i still got called a slag ha ha
2006-12-05 15:39:24 · answer #6 · answered by sammyantha 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
offered what sex. No big deal. That's what most guys usually think about anyway.
2006-12-05 15:36:49 · answer #7 · answered by tinytinkbell 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
that he was only after me for one thing...but it does depend on the guy....and on my mood! sometimes im up for treating myself!!!x
2006-12-05 15:54:29 · answer #8 · answered by m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i,d think wahahey im in
2006-12-05 15:36:52 · answer #9 · answered by Nellynoo 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
don't you all every time? ask us something that dosen't happen every time
2006-12-05 15:36:04 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋