my parents are driving me up the wall!!!!!!!!!!iam just so tired of them!just yesterday i felt so mad i felt like stabing my mom yeah it have gottin that far!i really want to be a happy family it just what ever i do or say they say iam rude!!!!!!!!yesterday i told my dad to caml down cuz the peopel next door are nosey and he cussied me out!!!!!!!!!the peopel next door asked me if they want them to call the cops on my dad cuz he was yelling at me!
help me !i need some one to talk to!!!!!!!! and i want to be happy
2006-12-05 07:31:19 · 8 answers · asked by XxMiKeY sToP StEaLiNg CoOkIEsxX 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
UMM YEA YOUR FAMILY NEEDS SOME HELP. JUST TRY AND STAY AWAY AS MUCH AS POSSIBLE. HANG WITH FRIENDS OR FAMILY OTHER THEN THE IMMEDIATE FAMILY THAT YOU DONT GET ALONG WITH. OR EVEN GET AN AFTER SCHOOL JOB... THAT WILL KEEP YOU BUSY AND OUT OF THE FIGHTING SCENE. IF YOU ARE TOO YOUNG TO GET A REGULAR JOB YOU CAN ALWAYS TRY HOUSE CLEANING YARD WORK OR BABYSITTING. HOPE THIS HELPS.
2006-12-05 07:35:36 · answer #1 · answered by becca_2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please do not take offense to this because I am your parents. I'm sure there is a whole lot more here than fit in your question box, but teenagers and their parents go through tough times. Every teenager and every parent of every teenager in the world goes through a rough patch. Hang in there...I know it's tough and I know (from experience) the violent tendencies that such strong emotion creates. Please stay in control. If you parents should get out of control or violent...leave that room. If they follow you, leave that house. If it is something that needs to be addressed come back at a later time and talk after everyone is cooled off. Your parents love you!!! You love your parents!!! Just please let them know that you do want to discuss these issues, but wait until things are calm. It sounds like your dad totally jumped, but I'm sorry...you can't say that you haven't gone off when it was totally unwarranted. Everyone does or at least has that tendency. Take every situation as an individual event. Don't dredge up the past and fight fair. Take the initiative to keep it calm and rational. You're parents will respect you for it.
2006-12-05 07:49:37 · answer #2 · answered by Calli G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband is alot like your Dad it sounds like. Why is it that guys can't remember what it was like to be young? Remember I'm sure that that didn't do everyone right when they were young and parents want to save the time and tell you not to do this or not to say that, they need to be reminded that when they were young that they didn't do everything that they should have. If you can what I would do is talk with your Grandparents, not to tell on them that they are yelling at you but maybe Grandma or Grandpa can tell Mom or Dad, that is the way you were with me. When I get that told to me by my Mom or Dad it makes me think alittle bit more on what my daughter is going threw. Stay strong and don't do anything to really hurt someone.
2006-12-05 07:44:02 · answer #3 · answered by smallsassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move and get your own place. What? can't? Too young? Well...live with it. Bceause you may want to be an independant thinker and want your freedom you don't rate the rewards or the consequences that come with it until you're off and on your own. Live in the parents house...live with their rules...like it or not.
2006-12-05 07:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe try Family counselling, if that is not an option and you are of legal age, move out, it doesn't sound like a great environment for you to be in!
2006-12-05 07:33:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to your parents. They may yell at you, I can't be sure. But if you don't talk to them, this will continue. Just watch everything you say around them, even if its not bad. Everything will work out. As far as the nosy neighbors, just tell them everything is fine, and if they don't leave you alone tell them to piss off.
2006-12-05 07:36:00 · answer #6 · answered by puffalump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
parents can be so hard but i just feel you need to just sit in your own space and be at peace with yourself and maybe your parents will notice and will want to do the same.... I feel so sorry for you...
2006-12-05 07:34:38 · answer #7 · answered by Thobie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my parents are like that one little thing bothers them so i stay clear of them unless they yell for me but other than that i don't talk to them
2006-12-05 07:38:12 · answer #8 · answered by xjojox_wht_up 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋