I dropped my bf off at school one day, and before he got out the car he told me that there was a chance that he could RUN INTO his ex...i thought about it and told him ok..(he said i had a weird look on my face)..then we were on the phone when i was on my break, and he randomly says "baby i gotta go, i'll call u back, bye" and hangs up quickly..right b4 my break was over, i text him asking what he was doingg and he said "i'm talking to my ex"....what should i think...
2006-12-05 07:31:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
umm there is nothing wrong with talking to an ex, as far as hi, how are you and bye, and like once a month, whats not right is for him to hang up on you to talk to her, keep your eyes open.!
2006-12-05 07:34:33 · answer #1 · answered by mel 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, its come down to confront level? If you can to the ex like a normal person on the street??? Yes most times??? Ex wives to talk to ex husbands 20 years later to know how things are. Relationship's come and go, and it depends if they started out as friends, and break and still get along yes. Its not a black and issues. If they ex is jealous control feako I stay away from the ex like the plague. Some relationships both wanted it to work, but the personalities dint blend well together every relationship is different. Good communication does not always make it likely to last, but it most likely means you will still talk to each other when the relationship is done.
2006-12-05 07:54:46 · answer #2 · answered by ram456456 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All I can say is at least he's being honest with you. He's not hiding the fact that he's talking to his ex. I would be a little concerned about why he felt it was necessary to get off the phone with you so quickly so he could take her call though.
2006-12-05 07:49:38 · answer #3 · answered by Julie F 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ouch.. that is rough. That tells me that you are not important enough for him to put above his ex. He hung up with you to talk to her?? That is crazy.
I would ask him why he did that and would ask him if he still has feelings for her. But only ask him these questions to his face so you can see the answer in his eyes.
Eyes never lie.
2006-12-05 07:33:52 · answer #4 · answered by Chrissie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he did tell you the truth when you asked him what he was doing so i guess that's a good thing. sometimes it's okay to keep in touch with an ex. i did with one ex bc us as a couple didn't feel right but we are really good friends and it has never been weird. and then there are some ex's that i would never keep in touch with. i guess my advice is find out why they broke up.
2006-12-05 07:37:18 · answer #5 · answered by basmusiq 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, she may not be a ex for long. But then again it depends on the circumstances on how they broke up & are there hard feelings in that relationship? Some peaple backtrack & some peaple dont.
2006-12-05 07:37:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i wouldn't worry about it too much. a lot of people still talk to their exes. i mean, just because they are no longer a couple, does not mean that they can't be friends. just keep an eye on the situation because you could be worrying for nothing. just follow your instincts.
2006-12-05 07:35:16 · answer #7 · answered by supercool5788 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Uhh...that is so wrong if he hung up on you to talk to his Ex?!?! Nu uh you have to have a serious talk with him. To see what else is going on with him or his ex. And tell him "it makes me mad to see you talking to your ex, how would you feel if I talked to my ex or a guy?"
2006-12-05 07:38:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
i think that if your boyfriend and his ex were actually doing something he wouldn't have said anything about it at all. dont make a big deal about it- casually ask him about it
2006-12-05 07:35:31 · answer #9 · answered by jess 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He may be trying to get a reaction from you to see if you still care.
2006-12-05 07:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋