is there a way to get my ex-boyfriend to notice me again? i still have very strong feelings for him and i haven't seen him since he broke up with me a month ago...i'm hanging out with some friends this friday and he's going to be there and i don't know how i should act around him...is there a way to get him to like me again or at least notice me?
2006-12-05 07:28:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You can't get anyone to like you again, they either do or they don't. If he doesn't then been cool and enjoy your friends. If you get all spastic, they will probably drop you too and that will suck a lot more than loosing your dumba$$ boyfriend.
Relationships can be about compromise or change once that relationship has rooted itself and you two have grown together. It should never be about change before then because then your just fooling yourself and the other individual.
2006-12-05 07:36:53 · answer #1 · answered by march s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dress as sexy as you can, and if your parents don't approve of those clothes, put some more clothes over it, and take them off there! Second, try a new and beautiful hairstyle, and third, get a hot date to make him jealous, and you don't have to keep that date. I'm 95% sure it will work. (And if you're not hot, find a hot guy friend to go on the date with you, and if he's a real friend he'll do it!)
2006-12-05 07:33:10 · answer #2 · answered by Rachel L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is so special about him that you need to be this pathetic? You could get all dolled up, and he might look your way, in between making out with his new girlfriend. However, if you are slung around another man, enjoying each others bodies, I can assure you he will notice. In any case, he dumped you, move on already.
2006-12-05 07:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by javelin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend split with me on fri. i know i'll see him this friday night if i go out so i'm not going to this week. my mates want me to go and prove i'm stronger but i need a bit of time. I'm going to try lose some weight as i have put some on since ive been with him. I'm not big but if i lose half a stone i know i'll feel more confident in myself. i'm going to change my hairstyle, sort of pamper myself, buy some new lush clothes, then go out in a while when i know i'll feel better in myself. be civil to him, talk friendly to him if he's like that to you. don't beg and don't get too drunk as this might make you see the situation differently. have fun but not purposely to make him see what he's missing. you might even see him and realise you don't want him back. if you still do chat normally but don't let too much on, then wait for a text or call from him. if you don't get one, he might have moved on. if you have to text him in a week explaining lightely how you feel or to arrange a meeting, but don't let on too much. good luck! :)
2006-12-05 08:01:32 · answer #4 · answered by alabama w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be yourself, whatever you did to get him, didn't hold him move forward not backwards, let the evening take care of itself. Good Luck,just have fun,happy holidays
2006-12-05 07:34:48 · answer #5 · answered by elizabeth_davis28 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be cool when u see him. don't ever act nervous. show him that u r still available. flirt and try to talk to him. hope he likes u again.
2006-12-05 07:34:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
make yourself look hot better than you normally would if you were going out.... he will notice...
2006-12-05 07:33:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make it obvious that you like him. good luck.
2006-12-05 07:30:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋