I know some girls go straight for a guy when they find him attractive, especially in bars. But I would like to know in any situations, outside of bars, if you girls make the first move if you see an attractive guy or if you wait for the guys to come to you?
2006-12-05 07:24:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely not..unless were totally desperate, and the guy is totally clueless* <--sorry but its true
EXAMPLE:
I like this boy a lot and I told my friends to tell him that I like him..but nothing else so HE has to make the first move.
and..girls get really sick of waiting so make your move before she gets sick of you.
TIP:
Try talking to her friends first to see if she ever talks about you or something like that.
2006-12-05 07:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by CandyQueen 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I made the first move with my bf and told him I really like him after about 3 months of knowing eachother. He was/is my first bf. That was a little over a year ago.
2006-12-05 15:30:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shivanie R 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ummmm...well i usually like a guy to make the first move, i'm not scared or anything it's just a total turn on for the guy to make the first move i think it shows he cares or at least thinks i'm hot!!! :) lol
2006-12-05 16:25:32 · answer #3 · answered by ♥ chelsea ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I let the guy make the move, but I do move a little closer like put my head against his to help him out a little and give him the go ahead.
2006-12-05 15:32:21 · answer #4 · answered by moneekie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do have to say i went after my boyfriend when i first met him... i found out he had a girlfriend and i backed off... we knew each other for like two years after that which was a long time after they broke up and then i let him make a move to let me know he was ready... it all depends on the situation... but usually when I'm interested I'll give hints that i wanna hang out or touch their arm/hand/shoulder a lot when we talk... but every girl is different... and so is each circumstance... she may like you so she wants you to make a move... good luck...
2006-12-05 15:33:20 · answer #5 · answered by YourBrownEyedGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends if the are a Type A girl or not. Type A girls have Type A personalities and go for what they want, everyone else just sits back and waits.
2006-12-05 15:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i usually wait for the guy to come to me. I always look at him and make him know that i am interested in him, and hopefully he will come and chat with me. If not, i am sure as hell not going to pass up a convo with a hot guy so yeah i am gonna go and talk to him....why not!!
2006-12-05 15:29:56 · answer #7 · answered by Beautiful disaster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the guy should make the first move.
2006-12-05 15:27:45 · answer #8 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i made the first move, my husband is shy, i keeped telling him to smile, and after a couple of weeks, we started dating, and i know a lot of women that make the first move cause guys are shy sometimes or scared
2006-12-05 15:28:51 · answer #9 · answered by adblodgett 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if the guy seems like he will except u while Ur making eye contact yes but if he doesn't seem interested than no! but however u like u should just approach her! well good luck.
2006-12-05 15:31:33 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋