What does it say about a Woman???

Question

What does it say to a Man if a Woman accepts a second date to his home for dinner?...Will he think I am there for the wrong reason? No one else will be there.

Answer 1

Second Dates are tough. You have to look at where you went on your first. Who picked the local and how did you meet. Depending on those answers he may simply be looking for a controlled environment, some where he feels most comfortable. If you know him well what better place than his own home. But if you are uncertain or uncomfortable meet some where public, or at least bring up the idea. It will put you back in control and if he has a problem with that then something wicked this way comes.

Answer 2

Men generally take the survival of the species very seriously. If you don't have the same view don't go!

Sorry, but seriously its not a good idea for anyone to go into that situation without the realistic outcome of behaving in some sexual way. As for what it would say about a woman? I'd say she'd thought it all through and would be happy with the above.

Answer 3

I think you should Let it be Known you're only there to eat and chit chat. Make sure you let it be known no pootie will be given out .
Also It is the second date. Maybe you two should hit up some public places. I don't know how long you;ve known him but if you've only known him for like a week or something like that, I'd suggest going elsewhere other than his or your house for a second date.

Answer 4

It says you enjoyed his company the first time around and you want to experience more....if it seems like its heading in a direction you are not ready for take off...make an excuse get out.
If you think thats the reason to begin with sugest you cook for him that way YOU make the rules and set the pace of the evening. or ask him over and you both can cook together. You would still be setting the pace and in your own home youll be more comfortable.

Answer 5

Depends on the man. Not all men perceive things the same way. You are the one dating him, you should know whether or not your acceptance to dinner at his home will lead him to believe anything other than dinner. If you don't know him well enough to know how he will interpret you saying yes, then you're a fool for going.

Answer 6

Mmmmm, I don't know....

How long have you known him?? Were you friends for a time before you started dating?

If this is a 2nd date and you are even slightly uncomfortable with the message it might send to eat alone at his house for dinner, don't do it! If you have doubts, you need to listen to what your head is telling you. If it seems a little shady, don't go thru w/it.

If you know this guy pretty well and don't mind what message it might be sending, go ahead. You're your own woman!

Answer 7

The two of you? Alone? At his house? Having a romantic candle-lit dinner? He's gonna be expecting some boo-tay, naturally.

Of course, you're totally in control of the situation, so there's no reason to feel pressured to go further than you want.

Answer 8

To me it just says that you accepted a dinner date to his home where he cooks you dinner. Be careful though as it could be a ploy to get you alone in privacy.

Answer 9

It says you like his company and would like to share a meal with him!! NOW if you "stay for breakfast" he might think you are easy!

Enjoy the meal, visit for an appropriate time then thank him and go home. He should not expect anything if he is a gentleman!

Answer 10

I think it's unsafe to go to a man's house on a second date. Have him take you out on a proper date, otherwise he might assume you'll provide dessert.