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okay, i recently become friends with tis girl who is everything i want in a woman: helpful (she lent me$100 once, and said to return it within 2 days), Nice, Kind, Friendly, Bitchy, Egoistic, Selfish, Self Centered, Innocent, Sweet, Charming, Dreamly, Extroverted, Friendly and when i talk 2 her, the way she looks at me, i feel like the whole world is gone, and we're the only 2 left....
She got flowers yesterday, blue orchids from someone, she does not know who, thats kinda creepy. But she loved them, she is popular in college and is friends with and nice to everyone
the prob is, I love her: she does ot think that way abt me,
and also: she tends to 'play' I mean that there are lots of guys after her, but she just keeps sayin no, when i aksed her - why? , she said she is not into relationships anymore, and sh'd rather be alone for now...... Ive heard that she is still in love with her ex, who is engaged to someone else
what do i do?
2006-12-05 07:17:46 · 6 answers · asked by saddaf 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if she is not interested, theres not much you can do. if shes still in love with her ex, you are out of luck. she needs to overcome her feeling herself and that takes time.
2006-12-05 07:21:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she likes the attention from guys. don't hit on her because then you're no different than the other guys. she probably thinks guys who are in love with her are creepy, actually. I don't think there's much you can do. she's not a nice girl, and I don't think you'd want to be with her. you'd have to constantly wonder what she'd be doing to get guys attention while you're together, if she'd even date. she still has some growing up to do. find a nice girl. sorry.
(plus she seems to be unrealistic ... she's in love with her engaged ex.)
2006-12-05 07:40:04 · answer #2 · answered by Vic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 18:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't pay attention to her. Start dating someone else. Showing her that you have moved on will make her want you even more. When she realizes that you are not always around, it will change her mind about her ex.
2006-12-05 07:27:00 · answer #4 · answered by chuck26 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you got a good friend, and she doesn't want to complicate it with a relationship. Keep in mind that your friendship is going to last longer than your relationship.
2006-12-05 07:22:25 · answer #5 · answered by Kat_n_da_hat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone. Once you stop pursuing her if she wants to be with you she will come to you and it might make her come to you faster.
2006-12-05 07:21:16 · answer #6 · answered by Venus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋