he's 52yrs old I'm 40yrs old he wants oral sex daily I can't remember the last time we had sex. he's an alcholic& I pay all the bills&rent while he helps take care of me. I'm disabled. he helps me get a bath cooks&cleanup mostly his mess. ok some of my mess if I don't get to it quick enough for him.I also buy all the groceries&cigarettes.what do I do if he wants oral sex daily&I rather kill myself then give him what he wants.what do I do???? he's known from the start I hate doing it but he still instance on me giving it to him daily
2006-12-05 07:16:58 · 18 answers · asked by candace0115 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't
Stop
You don't like it....don't do it!
Simple.
Sex isn't about who does what for whom. It's supposed to be an expression of love and caring and any act should be mutually enjoyed. If he doesn't get that get rid of him. I hear that you're disabled, but there are agencies that can help you out. Please get in touch with a Social service agency near you and stop allowing this bum to use you.
Oh, one last thing....if he tries to make you....Ya got teeth dontcha....take a bite out of crime.
2006-12-05 07:21:17 · answer #1 · answered by L 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This situation doesn't sound to good, you should make clear to him, that he can't make you do that and that you do not want that, you are a person, not some ******** doll or a f*ckdoll. You stand up for yourself, tell him that you don't want that.
Really, that situation is just bad and he wants all that? Maybe you should leave him, if he won't listen to you, when you say, 'I don;t want this' leave him, before things get from bad to even more bad and you don't want that for you or him.
Try and maybe find a good way of talking to him, maybe he might even listen to you, but that needs to be seen.
I hope that you are able to work it out with this man, if you can not, just leave him and find someone, a friend who will help you around the house....or whatever you need.
Good luck..
2006-12-05 08:35:54 · answer #2 · answered by DeeDee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's a Neanderthal baby....pure and simple. And a drunken one to boot. Its like this...it appears that in his estimation your a live in maid and a ******** machine to boot. Next time he starts with his moronic requests tell him that prior to any oral action you want to give him a nice, slow handjob to get him good and hard. Grab the bottle of baby oil and liberally oil up his tallywhacker. Then add a good sprinkling of cayane pepper and start jerking his gherkin furiously. Not only will the results be an absolute riot but if I were you I'd have a suitcase packed and the car running. You may not have the oppurtunity to get back into the house but it may be something that will give you some satisfaction in the years to come.
2006-12-05 07:21:47 · answer #3 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, it depends on how much he wants or needs it and how much you dislike it
if ya just are kind of put off by it but don't mind it that much, do it for him anyway and then get him to do something you like in exchange, could be sexual, could be just to fix life problems or cook a nice dinner
If he really can't live without it and you can't live with helping with that at least sometimes, or with him finding another girlfriend, then its over. Just find somebody who won't even want it.
2006-12-05 07:22:27 · answer #4 · answered by kurticus1024 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not do what you don't feel like doing.
Tell him NO!
If he can't deal with that, he needs to leave. It is not like you are losing anything worthwhile. Your boyfriend seems like a scumbag.
As a disabled person, you should be eligible for some sort of nursing assistance or home care.
2006-12-05 07:22:41 · answer #5 · answered by Jack C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you do anything you don't want to do unless you let them. If you can't work this out then I'd leave the guy. I mean you don't sound that happy anyways so why you staying. You seem to be supporting everything so why do you really need him Think about it. good luck ;o)
2006-12-05 07:24:05 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can do better than this hun x , tell him no! if he doesnt like it than he can go, you shouldnt let anyone make you do anything you dont want to you are a human being and deserve to be treated like one if he doesnt like it tough, you can find someone who loves you the way you are xx
2006-12-05 07:21:25 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What an as* hole!. I like it as much as anyone but It's not cool to MAKE you do it.
You tell him what you want, it's a two way street!
Stay cool
2006-12-05 07:23:14 · answer #8 · answered by Yahoo Answer Rat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he cant give it to you you cant give it to him...besides if you hate it then dont....that pretty much ruins the relationship and builds lots of resentment.
2006-12-05 07:19:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What's the big deal? Doesn't he bath?
2006-12-05 07:19:22 · answer #10 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋