So my best guy friend and I went out on a date with me and my bf and durring the date we met up with his ex gf and well my necklace was on backwards and my best guy friend stuck his hand down my shirt and my bf almost beat the crap out of him. And whenever I hang out with my best guy friend my ex bf always thinks I'm cheating. And the same thing happens when I'm hangin' out with my other guy friends.
2006-12-05 07:14:19 · 11 answers · asked by Steph1490 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. I mean, trusting you isn't the issue, but it is trusting the other guys.
You know that "guy friends" are just guys waiting for an opportunity to bang you, don't you?
2006-12-05 07:18:23 · answer #1 · answered by Jack C 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A lot of guys have problems in this area..basically if he trusts you there shouldnt be a problem. Your friend should know the boundaries though...putting your hand down another girls shirt no matter how close you are is gonna cause some serious trouble!
2006-12-05 07:20:44 · answer #2 · answered by joey p 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there's a line that you can't cross with guy friends... and guys know how guys think... your best friend sticking his hand down your shirt for whatever reason is crossing it... i have the same problem because i have a lot of guy friends... my boyfriend doesn't like that fact, but he also knows that by telling me that he is uncomfortable with certain situations - that i will respect him enough to make an educated decision based on his feelings and not just my own... it may not be that he doesn't trust you... he may just not trust any of your male friends... and until they are 'his friends' too... he most likely won't. you'll either have to deal with it or decide if your man is worth not seeing your male friends as often... good luck...
2006-12-05 07:22:07 · answer #3 · answered by YourBrownEyedGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guy has no problem with woman having guy friend. But if your own word, you freind has his hand in your shirt. Now, which man is not going to react. Friend, no reaction. Boyfriend or husband, is going to kill. I do play with my female friend. We talk and tickle, hug. But never hang inside the shirt. Now understand that you are hot and you have to understand even as friend, guy do think of hot girl in bed. That is because guy think with their dick. There is no respect. Guy know guy. That is why your bf is upset. You like your friend and the way you play is not sex, your play involve lots of touching, hugging. You might not know this, but it happen. Plus you already show your bf that your ex is around you and he can go in your shirt to fix your necklace. It is not sex, but he go in. So if you have water spill, does he helps??
Back to your question: I wil still trust you, just not your friends. Some of them, like your ex has lost credit. I see my ex, my gf believe me because we don't touch in helping necklace, I point out that her necklace is backward and she fix it. You need new guy friend that has respect for you as friend and not guy that are horny about you to show your bf that you can be trust with male friend. You need your guy friend to have respect for you and know what not to do or say in front of your bf. That is all you have to do.
2006-12-05 07:28:42 · answer #4 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a man I wouldn't put up with this garbage for 10 seconds.
I wouldn't have beat your "guy friend" up, I would have placed your crap in the front yard and changed the locks.
Have a nice day. BTW, IMO you are no better than a tramp strolling around in a red light district.
2006-12-05 07:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why not...if you are in the relationship...friends shouldn't matter...and if the BF minds...then he doesn't matter...it all goes back to how you are acting...if you are flirting, then sure any guy will be jealous, but if you are just being friends...then the BF needs to get a life!!!
2006-12-05 07:20:56 · answer #6 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy's the jealous type, he's afraid of losing you. i wouldn't make a big deal out of such a thing... unless there was a history of cheating involved. in that case, yes, i'd be suspicious. i'm guessing here, but he doesn't have that to worry about with you. in that case, sit him down and tell him this. good luck.
2006-12-05 07:17:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you are the type of girl who likes to make her man jealous! Put the shoe on the other foot. If one of his female "friends" were reaching down his pants to fix his belt...how would that make you feel?
2006-12-05 07:18:18 · answer #8 · answered by Italian_Guy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
guys hate girls with a lot of guy friends.. i didnt trust my girlfriend, and i turned out to be right.
2006-12-05 07:18:11 · answer #9 · answered by aaron 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He should'nt have his hand down anything. If you let him, why should you be trusted?
2006-12-05 07:19:24 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋