Ive had my eye on this girl for quite a while now, well we got 2 know each other,exchangd phone #s,emails n stuff n I strtd having feelings 4 her.We walkd each other 2 class, we talkd after every class we had n it was fun 2 hang out wit her.1 day i caught her after school,we talked n stuff i strtd tellin her how i felt 2 her face,n i asked her out n wit each word tht i sed,her smile kept gettin bigger n bigger,it was beautiful.Her reply was tht "I like u a lot a lot, but right now i dunno, thr r times whre i like u more thn a friend, but right now jus gimme time 2 think abt it."Well later on tht same night I got a msg frm her on the phone tht sed "when u 1st told me, i was speechless,but now tht i thot abt it, right now i wanna be friends.Cuz i really wanna stay like tht at the moment.I hope this duznt ruin our friendship or ne thing, ill ttyl,bye".The nxt few days were weird.Now our talkins on n off, n whn we talk thers a smile on her face,n i always catch herstarin at me.isthisnormal
2006-12-05 07:07:41 · 10 answers · asked by PRINCE24 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally - i don't know how old you guys are... chances are she likes you... but maybe she does just really enjoy your friendship... take what she said for how it is and just decide if you can be just her friend until she's ready or until you've moved on enough to see someone else... just go slow and be her friend and who knows - maybe it will take you two to a different level eventually... but you can't rush or force the issue... she did say that she likes you as more than a friend sometimes.. maybe she is trying to figure out if she wants to be with you and she just needed more time... just be the nice and incredible you that she knows you are and don't discuss the issue anymore unless she brings it up or you're telling her you can't be her friend any longer... good luck... ;)
2006-12-05 07:15:03 · answer #1 · answered by YourBrownEyedGirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It means she likes you too. and you should be grateful because friendship is a good start for a romantic relationship. if you are 18 and below, take it easy and don't be in such a hurry. Let things turn out in their own good time. As they say, let the fruit ripen in the tree, when it is ripe that is the correct time to pluck it, if you know what I mean. Continue showing her how you feel, but give her space at the same time. Wait for her until she is ready for commitment.
2006-12-05 08:05:45 · answer #2 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are in school, be focused on the study, study hard play some.
Keep her as friend, do not try to advance the friendship, she is wise and smart, this is the opportunity of life time to study hard, make something of yourself and consent rate of future lay a good foundation. Show her this response.
2006-12-05 09:42:26 · answer #3 · answered by minootoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think my answer is to you is that if she does smile when you talk and make her laugh then maybe by giving it time then maybe she will not be confused anymore and then take her somewhere romantic and ask her again if she wants to be more than friends dont worry give it time she be with you good luck
2006-12-05 08:31:39 · answer #4 · answered by Minnie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just worried that if you would break up with her you wouldn't be her friend anymore. She doesn't want to take the chance of messing up your friendship.Good luck!
2006-12-05 09:55:00 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe she'd like you better if you wrote out the real words, and not all in short text.
2006-12-05 07:10:41 · answer #6 · answered by Molly G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yeah it is...shes just a little confused on what she wants...give her space to figure herself out.
2006-12-05 08:12:45 · answer #7 · answered by Heera 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to find a way to impress her but be yourself
2006-12-05 07:11:26 · answer #8 · answered by spice8us 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is a natural imotion
2006-12-05 10:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her
2006-12-05 07:43:29 · answer #10 · answered by Oh My God! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋