how to get this guy to be my boyfriend?

Question

there is this guy in my class that i like but the problem is that he has a girlfriend but they fight all the time and they break up constently and she has cheated on him and he shows interest in me but i cant really tell so what should i do

Answer 1

Wait until the next breakup (since it is so often) and then be there for him to comfort him in any way you can think of!

Answer 2

Okay, check this out... you've got a really good view of that situation with that person. You get to see how that boy treats his girlfriends while arguing/fighting/breaking up. She's cheated on him? If he's with her, then why is he showing interest in you? Seems like things are going both ways. It takes two to tango- as they say.

Ask yourself, is this really something you want? This guy (and girl he's with) sound like a buttload of drama waiting to happen. You don't want to go after somebody that's involved in constant drama. It's not healthy physicaly or psychologically.

This guy sounds like bad news. Good luck with everything. Take care of yourself.

Answer 3

You should talk to him and get to know him as a friend first. If he starts to like you, maybe he'll realize the girl he's with isn't worth his time and break up with her. Good luck!

Answer 4

As usual, just wait. But if i were you, I would move on and find someone who is unattached and avoid all the trouble and heartache a three - angled relationship brings.

Answer 5

i was in the exact same situation, except his girlfriend was disgustingly perfect. he eventually broke up with her because...SUPRISE! her perfect little life showed no promise of fun or anything different. I've had him for four months now...and let me tell you, he's wrapped around my finger, because i just like to be me.