what can i do?

Question

i have a small chest i think this is why boys dont look twice at me. they are always talkin bout how they wants a girl with a large chest. this has lower my self esteem considerably. what can do to gain self esteeem agen?

Answer 1

i think you have a misconception about what guys like. Personally, I like it when a girls chest matches their body. A small girl looks stupid with a massive chest and vice versa. You don't need to gain self-esteem, you should already have it. If a guy is that picky about what size breasts you have, then you don't really want to be with that guy anyway, do you?

Answer 2

I don't know your age, but it could be that the young guys you are around are too immature to see you as the treasure you probably are. It's not about the size of your chest....it's all about attitude. Once you become comfortable in your own skin, you'll exude the confidence you need to attract the 'big fish' (a/k/a the handsome fish). Don't let anything as insignificant as a smaller chest affect your life. You do need to work on building your self esteem and this starts with valuing yourself. You can't let your self esteem be dependent on anyone else's view. Read self help books, talk with a counselor, ask a friend to point out your best qualities and practice, practice and practice. If need be...fake it until you make it. You're probably a fine person (certaintly seem humble which is not a bad quality) but you must find a way to learn how to love yourself. Life is too short not to have fun...and you're focusing on all the wrong things. Good Luck

Answer 3

Small chested women have bigger hearts.
They also do not get that particular hip spread you see in many large breasted ones. Just an observation.
A man does not worry about such a trifle. Wait a bit and you will be done with boys.

Answer 4

Not all guys think about big chests but I understand what you're saying. Believe me there's nothing you need to change for a guy to like you. You'll find someone who likes you for you. Don't let guys bring you down. You're not the only girl in that position. Cheer up!

Answer 5

You need to find a man that likes you for who you are and not chase the shallow men that only look at chest size... There are a lot of boys that like girls for their character and not their looks.... You are just looking in the wrong area....

Don't frett it so much....

Answer 6

If a boy only likes you 4 the size of your chest they aint worth botherin other. Find sum1 that lyks you 4 your personality.
good luk xxx

Answer 7

just take a step back and look at everthing that you have going for you. whose to say that guys don't look twice at you, just because you don't see it. don't worry, some guy will come along that really likes you, then you won't worry about this anymore because you will find out that you are perfect the way you are.

(sorry if this sounded kinda cheezy, my friends use this line on me all the time)

Answer 8

just know beauty has only a little to do with looks it a additude if you think your fine others will to as well as vis versa most guys say they like big chested women but the truth is they just like women cub size is only one of the beautiful details of us women

Answer 9

If that's what they want then you shouldn't want them. It should be about what makes you feel good and how smart you are and your personality. If YOU feel there is something "less" than average, go to victoria's secret and see if they can help you choose something that can enhance your assets. But remember in the end its about who you are inside.

Answer 10

Mine's not big and I've never had any complaints what is they say more than a mouthful is a waste? I had this one man tell me one time that church's chicken has bigger breasts than me. Lol!!!