we have a baby together.. he moved on and has a girlfriend theyve been going out for like 2 years... My son was not around when I had someone over but my ex found out and want to know who it was... He calls me a **** cuz i wont tell him who.. why does he care?
2006-12-05 06:26:51 · 30 answers · asked by PHD-NDN 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it's none of his business.
however, men are posessive....probably just as much as women....and have big egos. it's hard for him to get over the fact that you have moved on (even though he has).
2006-12-05 06:32:57 · answer #1 · answered by Michael JB 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's many things I can think of here. He may still have a thing for you in a round about way. He may just have a desire to know what is going on with you. Maybe he feels connected to you & like he can be a FATHER so to speak because you two have a child together. He interprets knowing as an entitlement when he's not entitled to anything that has to do with you other than making sure his child is taken care of. Ask him point blank why he wants or needs to know & get his reaction. Or mess with his head & make up some wild sex story to get his reaction. You can always tell him afterwards you weren't serious. It's possible that he may be jealous of you & is just now really feeling the aftermath of your relationship together. He sounds manipulative or lacking in logic to me. What it comes down to, though, is that he is not entitled to know jack about you. It is none of his business & I'm sure if you start asking him personal questions about him & his girlfriend that he'll stop this crap his doing.
2006-12-05 06:41:19 · answer #2 · answered by Jaysangl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because he is a possessive perv. He had you and doesn't want anybody else to have you like he did. He doesn't want you to enjoy something that you and he had together. He also wants to make sure that you aren't being a bad example for your son by having casual sex when the child is present, which is his prerogative since he IS the child's father.
2006-12-05 06:30:11 · answer #3 · answered by Lydia C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do not owe him an explanation. If you are going on with your life and your a good mom then he has nothing to worry about. You don't ask him about his relationships so why does he. He has control issues He doesn't know what he wants in his life. Stay strong. Good Luck
2006-12-05 06:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by daisygirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What? First of all it's none of his business. Secondly...tell him if he was capable of satisfying you like a man should you wouldn't need to see any other man. better yet...tell him his failure as a man drove you into a lesbian relationship. Ow. That hurts bad.
Kidding aside...tell him to take a jump at the moon. Its your business and none of his. Further calls involving the use of profane language will result in police intervention for harassment and threatening.
2006-12-05 06:30:49 · answer #5 · answered by Quasimodo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can we say "obsessed" He may have a small right to know who is hanging around his son but if your son isn't around he has no right and calling you names is proof of his obsession. He doesn't care he wants to control and is angry because you won't let him. Way to go girl!! Things like this are hard, but stay strong and you will prevail.
2006-12-05 06:30:39 · answer #6 · answered by vjatigerrr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You got rid of him cause he was a loser, right? Guess what? Nothings changed! He is still the same overbearing loser you dumped. Why not toy with him? Tell him how wonderful it is and how much better than he ever was you new man is.
2006-12-05 06:29:41 · answer #7 · answered by DJL2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U honestly tell me, don't have anxiety to know about ur x's sex life? I guess answer whould be 'yes'. This's very simple. Our emotions make us human beings. That's it. There is nothing to worry. Go on and on. Try to enjoy your life. Cheers...
2006-12-05 06:31:45 · answer #8 · answered by Pravesh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to cut off contact with your ex. If he is not paying child support then he does not deserve to be in your baby's life..or your life. Kick him out of your life! NOW!
2006-12-05 06:28:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you haven't dated him in three years and he still talks to you like that then he obviously has control issues, he has to know everything and be in charge at all times. ignore him, he has no right to know what you do/don't do as long as it doesn't effect your child in a negative way. if he has a gf, then he has nothing to say about anything.
2006-12-05 06:30:00 · answer #10 · answered by Always Question 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋