okay, i have this dude who is after me, but i don't really like him. what should i do? he calls and gives me money and buys me things and tells my family he loves me, i am lost
2006-12-05 06:24:33 · 15 answers · asked by shady_charisma15 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First things first, you need to stop accepting things from him. All that is doing is messing with his head. You are probably making him think that he has a chance. You need to tell him how you feel, in the clearest but nicest way possible. He is putting himself out there, and although his feelings are unwanted, you should at least try not to rip his heart out through his nostrils and stomp on it when you tell him you don't like him. Although men try to play like nothing hurts them, they are just as fragile as women are when it comes to matters of the heart. Be honest, clear and sympathetic and you will be all right. Good luck.
2006-12-05 06:46:44 · answer #1 · answered by Tainted Angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, I know how you feel...I was in the same situation...if u know you really don't like him then tell him and do anything to try and avoid him like change your number, don't accept his things and tell your family you want nothing to do with him..hope this helps
2006-12-05 14:28:48 · answer #2 · answered by gtfynest 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him like it is, that is the only fair way to go. If you are completely honest with him and he continues to give you things then it's his bad and on him not you!! If you have a conscience then refuse his gifts snd quit taking his calls.
2006-12-05 14:28:58 · answer #3 · answered by SHERRI 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told him on how u feel? Its best that u do so before its gets outta control. If u continue to accept money and things, that would be using him and u wouldn't want that.
2006-12-05 14:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be frank and tell him that you really don't like him. Try to sound serious but not harsh. It should seem like you are into a painful situation due to his acts.
2006-12-05 14:33:46 · answer #5 · answered by Neeraj Verma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ooh- thats a bad one!...uhm...well there is no easy way to do this-you have to be straight up with him and tell him how you feel! either that, or just let him see you with another guy???it depends on your relationchip with this dude whose after you...hope you can get rid of him!!!
2006-12-05 14:29:15 · answer #6 · answered by JATTI 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Didn't your parents tell you it is wrong to take things from strange people and this guy sounds very strange.
2006-12-05 14:28:39 · answer #7 · answered by lara 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you are not interested then Tell your parents. He sounds a little dangerous.
2006-12-05 14:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by Snuffy Smith 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
use him till the money runs out then disappear. just kidding just be honest and don't accept things from him
2006-12-05 14:26:43 · answer #9 · answered by DR.PHIL-A-LIKE 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you like him, accept his love and love him back. You are so lucky to have a guy like that!
2006-12-05 14:27:07 · answer #10 · answered by leazngurl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋