My boyfriend and I have been dating for quite sometime. My parents now have an issue with him and me seeing him because they didn't like the way he handled a situation, they felt that it was disrespectful to them but what he did had nothing to do with us. I don't agree with the way he handled the situation but I do understand why he did it. Since then my parents always have something negative to say about him. My family has issues with him and his side has issues with our relationship because they don't agree with some things that my parents have done. By the way he is a successful business owner, hardworking, responsible and treats me well, I am a college graduate, working hard and raising a child on my own but I still live at home. All of this is putting a strain on the relationship, what should I do?
2006-12-05 06:09:23 · 6 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
As long as you are living in their house, your parents are going to feel as though they have a say in your business. I would suggest saving up to get my own place.
2006-12-05 06:15:38 · answer #1 · answered by deerogre 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends, If in your heart you feel that he handled the situation with class, and you don't feel bad about it, then that doesn't matter. But since you brought it up then, it must bring you some bad feeling. And you think it was not right yourself. So what I would do is set down with him and your parents and his parents, and talk. If you really do belong, then everything will work out. But really, all relationships goes though it's hard time. SO GIVE IT SOME TIME>>>> GOOD LUCK. TALK IT OUT>>>>
2006-12-05 06:21:38 · answer #2 · answered by SYDORAS 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From experience, my parents hate my boyfriend and he has done nothing to make them, you should follow your heart. If you love eachother and see yourselves together for many years to come then be together. Your parents will either come along or not but it is what YOU want not what they want . You have to be able to make up your mind and forget what they feel when you are making up your mind.
2006-12-05 06:14:56 · answer #3 · answered by Karla K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well uh, we don't know much of the situation, so we can't really say much about it.
If he is a good guy, tell your parents that and let them know you are happy. They will be happy in the end if you are.
2006-12-05 06:15:32 · answer #4 · answered by ( Kelly ) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you guys are adults. take your parents' warnings into consideration, but you are capable of making your own call on this one. parents often try to break up perfectly good relationships for crazy reasons.
2006-12-05 06:14:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well- you live in theri house and have to abide by thier rules
2006-12-05 06:10:59 · answer #6 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋