My ex and I were in a 12 year relationship, and we have two children together. He's now dating a girl 20 years younger than him, but he still calls me begging for sex. So should i contunie to have sex with him? Why do you think he's doing this?
2006-12-05 06:07:18 · 21 answers · asked by tysexy25 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My ex boyfriend does the same thing. I guess the new chick isn't very satisfying. I was doing it but I stopped because we had to much history and a 6 year old daughter to be on that level. We was together for 8 years. If you have moved on and do not care about him emotionally then go for it if your enjoying it, but if it's causing you pain and making you hold on to feelings that need to go then I would say stop because your worth more than that. If you were his 12 yr girlfriend with two kids don't let him bring you down to bootycall status tell him to go hump on his little teeneybopper.
2006-12-05 06:16:29 · answer #1 · answered by Cali Frisco Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-06 05:34:02 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to start a relationship with him again? If so, then i woud express that before deciding whether or not to have sex with him. If you do want to get back together with him then having sex with him might be the worst thing you can do especially if he is in a relationship with someone else. If you don't want to get back together with him... what's the point? He could be doing this for a number of reasons.. 1) his new girl is not satisfying him but as she is 20 years younger than he is, he might see her as a "prize" and not want to end things with her. 2) He just wants to see if he still has a hold on you. 3) He still wants to be with you... among other things.
Most importantly you need to do what you feel is right in your heart.
2006-12-05 06:14:31 · answer #3 · answered by rckangel71 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really think what you're doing isn't right, you outta try putting yourself in your ex-boyfriend's girlfriends position. I'm sure if she found out she'd be upset and hurt. I can understand that you all have kids together but none of this right, I hope you make the right decsion. The best thing is to move on, the past is the past.
2006-12-05 06:23:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i were you....... I'd still have sex w./ him just because the simple fact you had 12 LONG years w./ him. you and he both knows that he's NOT HIV positive. Right? so why not, + you have 2 kids w./him. It's perfectly fine to continue having sex with him. maybe he's calling because you have Better PUSSY than his new "YOUNGER" chick.
2006-12-05 06:19:21 · answer #5 · answered by Y0ung,sofisticated,and Sex 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WHAT? Hellllllllll no. Don't even think about it, I can't believe you're even considering it. And what's wrong with this guy? Why would he ask you for sex when he's dating a chick 20 years younger....
Psycho.
2006-12-05 06:12:42 · answer #6 · answered by Lara B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is probably doing this cause the other female is not giving him anything. But if he is not in a commited relationship with you, don't give him any of that sweet stuff babe. Don't let him use you only as a "Booty Call".
2006-12-05 06:11:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's called a booty call. When his little girl is not available he will count on you for sex. You need to cut him loose and let him find someone else when he needs an outlet.
2006-12-05 06:10:31 · answer #8 · answered by Val 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should not continue to have sex with him. That's not healthy for anyone involved. He needs to decide. If he wants to be with you then that's one thing, but if he wants to date some 20 year old twinky then he can't have you too.
And as for why he is doing it, I dunno, maybe he is just being a selfish male pig!
2006-12-05 06:12:37 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even ask? NO! NO! NO! You have no reason to see this clown other than to transfer the children during visitation. Find someone who appreciates you and dump this loser!
2006-12-05 06:10:53 · answer #10 · answered by Roberta 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋