My boyfriend and I see alot of eachother and we are serious. I am completely in love with him and he did take my heart away.We have been dating for a while now. My parents also like him and knows how much he cares for me and that he does alot for me. However, it is my senior year, and their concern is that i see him and talk to him too much and am ruining my senior year. I try to just see him twice a week when i have sports game and on the weekend also. And they say I dont spend time with my friends, however I try to include all of us. I dont know what else I can do because honestly I am the most happiest when I am with my boyfriend. We also spend time equally at his house and my house so I do include my parents. What else can I do?
2006-12-05 05:35:46 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There are many diffrent things you can do. i am in my senior year also and am dating someone, so i have a similar situation. I think that your parents just don't want you to go through your senior year with this guy and then end up breaking up when you go tocollege. If you are as serious as you say you are then you need to ask yourself this question: "will this last in college." If the answer is yes then tell your parents how you feel about him. It may be hard, but once they know your truly in love, then they'll understand. good luck!
2006-12-05 05:43:22 · answer #1 · answered by rdog 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just watching out for you because they care about you...if you didn't have a boyfriend they would worry because you didn't have a boyfriend. Some parents worry too much about this stuff, but unless something really bad has happened (you're out all night, you are reckless, you've had an abuse problem, drugs, alchohol, you have physical violent conflicts, etc), they are just concerned.
You might want them to specifically state how much time they think is ok, and then cleverly inch that number up a bit. Good luck.
2006-12-05 05:40:53 · answer #2 · answered by ♫ giD∑■η ♫ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you are very lucky and have a pretty good relationship with your parents. It's great that you have a wonderful boyfriend and your parents value your relationship. I think they have concerns because once you get older, you look back and realize that the "younger years" were pretty good, and sometimes there are things you would do differently. I think they just don't want you to have regrets....Talk to your parents, find out what their real concerns are....keep an open dialogue with them. Really they are just looking out for your best interest. I would also ask you to remember this, you are very very blessed to have such a great relationship with your parents, alot of young girls are not so fortunate. Give them an extra hug, and thank them for caring about you.
2006-12-05 05:42:16 · answer #3 · answered by favrd1 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You only get one chance at High school. Don't let a boy stop you from getting through school. If he is really the one he will be there through it all for you. Your parents want you to be the best you can be. Make sure your boyfriend wants the same. Hindsight is 20/20 but you have to do what feels right for you at that moment.
2006-12-05 05:42:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-03 12:13:39 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
nothing in this world like your parents love finish school FOCUS in on time for your curfews never late spend time with your parents have dinner at home talk to your boyfriend on the phone and maybe see him for a date on a saturday friday night and sunday should be with your family your family love will be there even when your feellings for your newfound love is gone
family , and education comes first the more mature you are in the mind the more mature decisions your body will make remeber while you are at his house your parents are missing you
2006-12-05 05:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by slpry L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are wise in these matters. Boyfriends in high school are a waste of time. At least that's what i think. I feel I wasted too much of my senior year worrying about my girlfriends. I would have rather spent more time with friends.
2006-12-05 05:37:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are just being good parents. Too many of us regret not living the single life while we can. We have the rest of our lives to be married, and tied down. They want you to be sure that he is the right one, they want you to date many, and just enjoy it while you can. They will always worry about you, even when you are 40. They just want whats best for you. Tell them you appreciate their concern, and do your best to do more without him for a while. Dont get married or even think about it while you are this young.
2006-12-05 05:39:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents just want you to get things in their proper perspective.They would feel and rightly so,that they would have done a good job of nurturing and guiding you through to the present,if you would just complete your senior year with the dedication they know you are capable of.
2006-12-05 06:00:31 · answer #9 · answered by siaosi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have different prepsectives. Your parents are looking at the big picture. You are looking at your feelings and at the moment. You maybe should sit down with your parents and make a schedule
2006-12-05 05:38:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋