we met when i was 18 though so no problem there
HES A WHITE GUY AND IM BLACK SOMETIME I LET IT BOTHER ME about are age difference sometimes not about is color i mean he treats me good we support each other even when we dont agree he love me i love him we dont have kids we are waiting till we are married WHAT SHOULD I DO?
HELP ME PLZ
2006-12-05 05:30:02 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy-Texas-07 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Love conquers little things like age and colour differences.
2006-12-05 05:32:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
When I was 19 my boyfriend was 30. He had a master's degree, I was a college dropout. He was a musician and was in a few popular bands. We had a lot of fun together. He actually ended up moving in with me a few months into it. It only lasted about a year because I didn't have a job and he got sick of supporting me. I was getting annoyed with him anyway with his "musician lifestyle" (touring, smoking weed everyday) Age was never an issue between us.
That was almost 10 years ago and I look back at it and feel a little creeped out. Now I think that he was too old for me and I wonder why he wasn't dating someone closer to his own age. I'm almost the age he was when we met and I would NEVER date a 19 year old!! A 10 year age difference is not a big deal but it is a little weird when one of the people is still a teen. It doesn't mean it won't work out for you though.
2006-12-06 02:48:54 · answer #2 · answered by Pico 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i dont see the problem with your age. you are legally old enough to make relationship decisions, so go for it. and as for the color of your skin, well honey im color blind, lol, what does color have to do with anything? frankly i have a rainbow for a family, we are happy and stable. i am a grand mother with a rainbow and im a happy camper! go for it, dont fix it if it isnnt broken. relax and enjoy, your relationship sounds like it is alot better than most these days and you both sound level headed and you dicuss things together, oh honey, just go for it!
2006-12-05 13:41:33 · answer #3 · answered by chrystal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are waiting till you are married to have kids, thats great! wait also to have sex then too and it will be good. that is a very interesting situation....umm....i would say try, even though it is a lil odd, the age difference is HUGE...but if the maturity levels are good, then why not. your legal...
2006-12-05 13:33:11 · answer #4 · answered by College Wifey 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love him and he love loves you.. what can be the problem? don't let color and age get in the way..
2006-12-05 13:34:52 · answer #5 · answered by crztna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let things keep going the way they are dont give him that signal u trust him cos then he will feel bad and u might not like the outcome
2006-12-05 13:34:50 · answer #6 · answered by combs 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
age is just a number. all that matters is if your happy with each other
2006-12-05 13:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you're "legal age" he can't get busted.-
2006-12-05 13:34:16 · answer #8 · answered by strange-artist 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋