my girlfriend of almost 2 months now wants to break up, kinda outta no where. she dont like the fact i smoke weed, but i quit for her and that aint good enough. i want to let her know i have changed and now realize i really effed up, and now i can be a better BF what should i do?
2006-12-05 05:24:49 · 18 answers · asked by ridingspinners369 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ive told her I quit and everything but it does seem like theres something else. She does got allotta stress and she worries about stuff too much. A week ago she said she didn’t like having a pothead BF, and that it REALLY bugged her, but that came outta the blue, maybe an excuse to break up cause shes got someone else or shes just incredibly at her wits end, idk. I told her I wanna make this work but she said shes tired of trying to work things out, and we aint even talked about it or even really discussed the issue.
2006-12-05 07:00:18 · update #1
Tell her how you feel and what you've done. That should mean ALOT to her that you would quit doing drugs for her. If it isn't enough there might be something else or another reason she wants to calll it quits. Talk to her, if she still wants to break it off then so be it. You are better off without someone like her in the long run.
2006-12-05 05:28:45 · answer #1 · answered by Me, again 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No decent girl puts her future in the hands of a boy who zones out, or risks all ( jail time, limited choices of career, etc.) for a buzz. This particular girl is probably history for you. Sorry. Two months is a short investment for a better life. Build on what you have learned and move on. Not always true, but boys are usually looking for physical strokes and a smart girl is looking for a person who isn't going to jeopardise the future by being a druggy and having deadbeat friends.
What kind of girl do you want? Decide, then be worthy of her.
2006-12-05 13:40:06 · answer #2 · answered by character 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Did you ever ask her why she wanted to break up with you? It might be because she has commitment issues or is just not mature enough for a relationship. If it is anything liek that, it would be best to end it and maybe give her some time. If it isn't, talk to her about what the problem might be and try and resolve it the best you can.
2006-12-05 13:32:01 · answer #3 · answered by sweetnothinangel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think the relationship is over... i'm sorry to say but a 2month relationship not that big of a deal. I mean i think you should just find someone else that you can smoke weed with and love you for you. it just seems like that she was trying to make you into someone your not in the 2 month relationship.
2006-12-05 13:29:15 · answer #4 · answered by maeseason 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't do drugs, nor do I smoke. I do know that it's hard to quit. If she can't see your making a huge commitment to stop this smoking, she's very blind.
Although, I might add, no offense, I wouldn't REALLY want to date someone who's been smoking weed.. but that's just me =]
2006-12-05 13:30:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants to break up "outta no where," then she's probably found somebody else. Or, she's just fed up. If you want to be a better boyfriend to her, just tell her. Explain to her how you feel. That's all girls really want.
2006-12-05 13:27:17 · answer #6 · answered by Holly W 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Show you are dedicated to her and only her not weed not anything else and show her why it is different with you know how you are now a great also spoil her because she deserves it for putting up with the weed to begin with
2006-12-05 13:27:23 · answer #7 · answered by Robert K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u need to just let her @ss go and do what ever it is you wanna do. dont let some bi*ch make u think you effed up. how the hell did u F up?? by smoking? come on. if that bi*ch dont like it kick her @ss to the curb and find someone who does like it and will do it with you and enjoy it. you only dated her 2 months thats no time at all. tell her to kiss your @ss and find a diff chick who will let u do what u wanna do and you can be yourself around
2006-12-05 13:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by rodie5582 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you told her that you changed? believe it or not sometimes people are just too late. maybe it was just not ment to be. you need to realize that people are the way they are and if she didnt except you for who you were then she shouldve never went out with you in the first place.
2006-12-05 13:29:04 · answer #9 · answered by incubusgirl09 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all never give up on what you believe n ,also never let anyone push their decision`s on you , you are a man ( young man i suppose) you are going to make mistakes howvever know one can push their judgment on someone else thats what i believe NO MATTER PARENTS GIRLFIEND OR S, UNCLES AUNTIES, BEST FRIENDS NO ONE BUT YOU MAKES THE FINAL ANSWER, DESPITE HOW THE CIRCUMSTANCES MAY TURN OUT , THATS ALSOONE OF MANY WAYS YOU MATURE AND GROW FROM YOUR MISTAKES AND TRANGRESSIONS
2006-12-05 13:37:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋