Please help because I really don't know what to do.Here is my story:
There is a guy that I really like.We met about 7 days ago but I have known him before.First we talked online for 3 hours then we went on a date.I really had a great time.I realized that he had a great time too. I sent him an sms asking him did he have a great time because I thought that he didn't, I thought that maybe he was having second thoughts or something like that......he replied saying that the only thing that matters is that he is having a great time with me and that he loves me(I actually think that got confused..maybe he wanted to say that he likes me).....I really don't know what to do....Everything was so great before he said this...Now I feel kind of different...I don't know what to do because he really confused me
2006-12-05 05:24:37 · 20 answers · asked by arzija8 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
like you said he may have wrote it wrong.. But i think he is in LUST not love.... He may be the clingy type that falls hard fast and if that is the case hun you need to run fast... because people like that are crazy mad! If you are unforsure go out on another date and say hey I like you alot an have a great time with you! if he replies the same way then maybe he made a mistake.... if he says I love you! say no I don;'t love you i like you an if he accepts that an says in no more have a good time if he refuses to hear that then walk away then and there/
2006-12-05 05:31:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he probably was trying to say he loves spending time with you. Don't get freaked out yet. If he starts saying he loves you though like before he hangs up every single phone conversation or starts sending you emails saying I LOVE YOU , then you can get scared.
2006-12-05 05:29:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont you just ask him flat out what he meant by it? Or just ignore the fact that he said it and go on with the realationship! If he isn't saying it everyday.....he may not have meant it the way you took it
2006-12-05 05:28:42 · answer #3 · answered by Just here. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he was probably just trying to say he loved going on the date. Or loved getting to know you. I think he probably meant it casually not seriously. Go on another date. If he says it again then you know its too early and tell him he is moving too fast.
2006-12-05 05:28:22 · answer #4 · answered by CarolinaGirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds creepy to me. If you're still interested in the guy, at least see him again, just to see if he says it again, or if it was just something he blurted out without thinking about it. If he says it again, then get rid of him. He's WAY too clingy!!
2006-12-05 05:33:23 · answer #5 · answered by funnygrrl19 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love at first sight is possible, but rare. Don't commit to anything that you are not ready for, tell this guy that you like him and would like to get to know him better, but don't say I love you to him unless you really mean it.
2006-12-05 05:27:48 · answer #6 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow... that is way too fast.... I duno... I say go on more dates with him and like w/e but if he says I love you again, like to your face just tell him like you enjoy spending time with him and you want to pursue a realtionship with him but you arent to the point where you love him
2006-12-05 05:30:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is perfectly fine. Some people use the word love for a really strong liking
2006-12-05 05:27:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't really love you...he loves the way he feels about you...just let it go and go with the flow...you'll probably have great times together...
2006-12-05 05:27:34 · answer #9 · answered by drgolfmd 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him what he meant... Tell him that you liked him but that "love" is a strong word... Give him a chance to explain...then make your decision...
If he really meant "love" I would run away!!!!!
Good luck!!!!
2006-12-05 05:28:51 · answer #10 · answered by Milkywayman22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋