my b/f brother was with this stripper who had 2 kids and got pregnant by him she did coccaine the entire time she was pregnant which is just one reason I hate her so much but since then she left and left all her kids with my b/f's brother she is a drug addict he lived with us for 3 months he had no job and no way to support these kids we had to along with our 3 she didn't even call her son on his birthday I made his birthday happen we even got christmas presents for them it still seems like everyone kisses her *** like she is mother superior I think that her kids deserve better I can see why she left the baby since it is his kid but the other 2 aren't and when my kids do things it's because I won't beat my kids but I never hear a word about how that trick did that to her kids why does everyone kiss her *** and why am I the only person to think she is wrong that she shouldn't choose drugs over her kids
2006-12-05 05:23:47 · 6 answers · asked by fluttergirl2004 5 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
wow I totally agree with you. If I knew her I think I would try to smack some common sense into her.
How can a mother do drugs well carrying a life? It tells you what a selfish person she is. You really can not help but feel so sorry for them kids that they had to live like that and be with her. But than again a child needs a mother in there life to. But what kind of person is she to just walk away from her children and choose drugs.
To me you sound like a saint for taking these children in and making them feel really loved. I bet it is hard on you and your family but you are doing the right thing for making them children feel loved.
2006-12-05 05:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by crazziegrl14 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm not sure that I understand the question but no of course a mother should not choose drugs over her children. The b/f brother should charge her with abandonment and file child support charges on her and have the judge declare her as an unfit mother. The only people who think she's wonderful and treat her like mother superior are her fellow deadbeat drug using friends. That's my advice.
2006-12-05 05:32:44 · answer #2 · answered by 1973kimberly 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
My daughters father abandoned us 12 years ago. He doesn't pay, never has. Never knew why. To clarify something though. Women abandon their children to. Someone in my family left her husband and kids. She doesn't support them or see them. She told me she didn't want to be a wife and mother anymore. Her husband works, doesn't drink or smoke, and didn't abuse her or the kids. He is a great guy. He tells her when she gets done doing what she has to do that she can come back. She says she's never going back. For the life in me, I cannot see why people do this.
2016-05-22 21:33:24 · answer #3 · answered by Lynn 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You NEED to call child protective services! Obviously she cant take care of the children, and neither can your b/f's brother if he doesnt have a job. You can call annonomously and not give your name...
Those kids need to be somewhere where they can be cared for properly... Maybe after they take her kids away, she will be forced into rehab, and have to stay off drugs to get her kids back....
I feel sorry for the kids. But someone needs to step in and make sure those kids get the care, love, food, clothing, etc...that they deserve.
2006-12-05 05:34:36 · answer #4 · answered by multipure417278 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Those kids are so much better off, away from her. Someone needs to step in and make sure she never sees them again unless shes clean. Those kids deserve so much better.I wish you all the luck in the world. Just remember to love them no matter what, they didnt ask for this.
2006-12-05 05:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Msranda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's this thing called punctuation. Use it so the rest of us have some sort of an idea about the topic of conversation.
2006-12-05 05:32:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 3⤋